My nipples are swollen =\

[wolf116]

Not close enough to bring it up with them. After hiding it for so long I can't talk about it with ANYONE, there is a mental block there now.

That sucks man, If I was wealthy I'd transfer the money to you. lol

I think you should put a bit of energy into trying to break this mental block. Especially since it could save you from years of frustration. It's a massive relief once you break a mental block.

 

[wolf116]

How about write her a letter?
If you wrote her a letter, it would show her the kinds of problems this is causing you and you will be able to get everything off your chest without being interrupted. You could even request for her to not even discuss this with you and if she is willing to help, she should just transfer the money over or contact you by letter or email.

PM me your mums address/email, I'll write her the letter and you won't even know! lol

 

[ShockerGuy50]

Its so frustrating to deal with this period. I'm with you Kerpal in that I wouldn't even want to tell my parents at all.

I'm not sure if it really relates to it but do you notice a weakness or lack of strength in the side that is wrong. Mines on the left and my left arm/hand are almost retarded. Also I notice a lack in strength in that side. Just me?

 

[daytona]

I know how you feel... I tried talking to my parents and of course they gave me the whole "you're fine the way you are", "your problem is in your mind", etc bull$****. I'm just so fvcking sick of this issue, I even though of cutting them out myself a few times before. I visited a doctor and I pretty much told him straight out how I feel, I was not even embarassed. Just sad. The fvcker told me it will go away in time... yeah I'm sure it will I'm 18 it almost NEVER goes away at this age. Go back and redo your medical school you fvcking piece of ****. I tried to discuss how to get rid of it without it going away on its own and he basically just changed subject. This is the only thing I dislike about my body and it's driving me off the wall. I think about it at least 10 times a day and especially whenever I go out. Hell, I don't even go out much anymore. I wear sweaters in the summer. I wear t-shirts under shirts. I just wish all this would stop .

I wish I had the money for surgery and I wish my family could understand the emotional problems this is causing me. I passed up sex before due to this issue... Now I'm 18 and still a virgin.

 

[wolf116]

You guys need to stop wallowing in misery when there are solutions to this.
Even make **** up, like that you have been suicidal over it and have developed social anxiety disorder.

Seriously, as if your parents aren't going to help you if they think is has caused you to be suicidal. Fvck if that didn't work I'd slice a gash under my nipple just to prove a point.

I had to do the same **** to make my parents help me with my acne.

Seriously, if you write a heart pulling letter you will get the sergury.

 

[ShockerGuy50]

Same here. My parents couldn't help even if I did ask them. My dad is a douche who doesn't care what is going on with my life, and my mom is broke as well.

Wolf it is def not easy to cope with. Even though I am overweight I feel as if my chest kills my confidence most with going in public or escalating things with girls. Like Kerpal has said it is a major mental block.

Kerpal I like to think that if both sides were the same I would be a lot better off with coping. You could be the deformed freak with one tit...lol. IT SUCKS.

 

[daytona]

It's just a major mindfvck and I think about it all day, every day. I'm just glad I have it bad on both sides and I don't just have one growth. I really need surgery but I'll wait a little longer. Eventually I'll just have to tell everyone "Screw you guys, I'm getting nipple surgery.". It's the only way to get it done and I know they wouldn't understand. This REALLY sucks , we are cursed.

 

[yep]

i cant belive its not paid for by med insurance since it is usually called by what could be a unbalance..ect.

if the endo i go see thursday says he cant help me im going to want to punch him....lets hope to god i remember not to take my test pills that day....

 

[yep]

well see in my case the doctors are pretty sure its called by a high prolatin level caused by what may be a tumor in my brian.

Where i live the doctors are SLACK on doing stuff. They dont care about you all they care about is getting paid for selling you off on some bullsh!t excuse.

You would understand if you lived here.

 

[The Inside Man]

whats up guys...gyno is a curse i had since13 til 20, no steroid use at all, no weed until years after I had it. I had the surg., painful but worth it. No one has any idea of the effect on self esteem, etc. unless they have had it. cut your bf% in the meantime and save for the
procedure.

 

[yep]

I am worried about the important stuff its just i cant do anything about the tumor (that might/might not be) so i figure some adivice on other stuff work be cool until they can do surgery on my head or meds or whatever. Just trying to get everything sorted out.

I kinda want the tumor cuz if i have they can fix that then having a tumor the doctor told me would actually make the insurance company pay for my
Gyne. Which is cool.

 

[Kiko-]

bump, I'm in the same situation

 

[The Inside Man]

the surgery was around 2000, outpatient, in his office and not the hospital. it was in ohio, where almost everything is cheaper than where I live now. took 2 hours and I was fully awake. painful at the time, but changed my life forever