"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My Night At The Club

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Shezz said:
Well, if you have any sense, you will have EXCHANGED numbers with her at the club. As soon as she gives you her number, call her straight away so she has yours!

If she then responds with the above...next, because you know she has your number.

Sarge On...

Also, you could simply sign your name on the initial text message, then she'll know who it is right away.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I kind of like shezz's method. It is really not a great feeling when they don't pick up the phone after you put your ego on the line calling them.
 

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Day 3 After My Night At The Club (reports)

Called approach#3 today... I called her and got her voicemail. Didn't leave message. She calls me back 10 minutes later but we are unable to hear each other, and phone cuts off. I thought about calling her but I said screw it I am the prize. One hour later she leaves me a text.... Hey hows it going? I tried callin u back but i couldn't hear anything. Have a good day at work and call me when you can.

So instead of calling her I sent her a text 5 hours later.
LOOKYOUNG- I am at work till 1130PM. I would like 2 get together with u this friday! (kept it short and sweet) I will see how this works. If she calls me after this than I feel that I am in the mix.


Girl from Approach #4- I didn't call this girl and she texts me today which is a great sign...
APPROACH 4 text message: Hey can we hang out on saturday instead of friday? Friday is a girls night out.

LOOKYOUNG: I call her a few hours late get voicemail. Don't leave message.
I leave a textmessage: Well I work till 1130pm on saturday. Maybe this thursday or next tuesday. When will u make yourself available.

Approach 4 text message: Thursday is fine i think. I am sorry about friday i havent had a chance to spend time with my gf since i have been back. Also sorry i didn't pick up was interning when you called..


I think I have a good shot to get a date with approach 4. She is apologizing and seems receptive. Man i really want to fvck this girl, I really hope I do.

Approach 3- Tomorrow is the big day. I am going to let her call me tomorrow and if she doesn't will man up and give her a buzz in the evening, hopefully she calls me before i call her. This will be a major IOI.

Some of the things I learned with my night at the club.

1. Remember when calling these girls always know in the back of your mind that you are the prize.
2. Don't blow up there phones keep them guessing.
3. When you meet these girls you need to make an impact. Impact meaning great convo, great kino, great kiss, there has to be something in the girls mind that stands out about you. You are much less likely to get flaked on.
4. POSITIVE ENERGY- YOU GET POSITIVE ENERGY BY HANGING OUT WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE. NOT AFC's. Always think of yourself highly.
5. BALLS- Have fun approach. REMEMBER GUYS THIS IS LIKE A VIDEO GAME. YOU LOSE BUT YOU GET BETTER AND BETTER AND EVENTUALLY YOU WILL START PULLING THESE GIRLS.

I really hope I bang one of these girls. I will update this thread if I hopefully go out on a date with these girls. (HOPEFULLY THEY DON"T FLAKE)

AND IF I BANG THEM I WILL GIVE YOU GUYS EVERY JUICY DETAIL... WHAT WE DID ON DATE. THINGS I SAID, KINO, HER BODY, EVERY LITTLE DETAIL. I WILL TELL SOSUAVE ABOUT. LETS HOPE IT GETS TO THAT POINT.:up:
 

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I really love these threads. I think you got Approach 4 on a string haha. When a girl is apologizing for not answering what not...you know it can't be a bad thing :)

More inspiration for me to actually go out there and TRY instead of doing nothing!

oh btw - you're a very good looking guy aren't you? I can tell because it seems like you don't have to say much at all and the girls are into you. Not to say you have no game (because obviously you do) but it certainly helps to be attractive.
 

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green69 said:
I really love these threads. I think you got Approach 4 on a string haha. When a girl is apologizing for not answering what not...you know it can't be a bad thing :)

More inspiration for me to actually go out there and TRY instead of doing nothing!

oh btw - you're a very good looking guy aren't you? I can tell because it seems like you don't have to say much at all and the girls are into you. Not to say you have no game (because obviously you do) but it certainly helps to be attractive.
I am glad this gives you inspiration. Threads like this also give me inspiration. I love hearing people sharing real life stories.


Not too toot my own horn but am a very good looking guy, girls usually come a little easier for me than most. However I have some weaknesses. Can be quiet if I am around a bunch of Afcs. It also seems like I do my best sarging when I am liquored up. And I am not the best dancer. I am not much of a dancer. If I was more of a dancer I would have probably fvcked double the girls that I have fvcked in my life.

So those are my weaknesses. Hey I guess noone is perfect...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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green69 said:
I really love these threads. I think you got Approach 4 on a string haha. When a girl is apologizing for not answering what not...you know it can't be a bad thing :)

More inspiration for me to actually go out there and TRY instead of doing nothing!

oh btw - you're a very good looking guy aren't you? I can tell because it seems like you don't have to say much at all and the girls are into you. Not to say you have no game (because obviously you do) but it certainly helps to be attractive.
I am glad this gives you inspiration. Threads like this also give me inspiration. I love hearing people sharing real life stories.


Not too toot my own horn but am a very good looking guy, girls usually come a little easier for me than most. However I have some weaknesses. Can be quiet if I am around a bunch of Afcs. It also seems like I do my best sarging when I am liquored up. And I am not the best dancer. I am not much of a dancer. If I was more of a dancer I would have probably fvcked double the girls that I have fvcked in my life.

So those are my weaknesses. Hey I guess noone is perfect... Oh and I also never fvcked a girl off of the internet. Thinking about joining a dating service.... or myspace.... That is another avenue for getting girls.
 

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Day 4 after night at the club Reports

Called approach 4 today, and this is how it went....
Call her at 2:50 pm doesn't pick up phone....

Approach 4 leaves text message Hey I am in class. WHat do you want to do tomorrow? You can call after 5 i will be home then.

LOOKYOUNG /B]-Lincoln ave for some drinks. Am working will call u after 8. I texted her this.


Approach 4 textes me again(**** test) All I get is drinks why are u not trying to court me properly!

LOOKYOUNG Texted her.. My main objective is to get to know you, not court you. I only know three things about you. 1. From ohio 2. Your cute. 3) your a great kisser. What did you expect?


Approach 4 textes back Cute? Like a 12 year old? And I think our definition of court is a bit different. ( SHE IS FISHING FOR COMPLIMENTS)


LOOKYOUNG textes back.. what would you prefer? Me to say your sexy like a porn star?


Approach 4 textes back.. Yeah kind of!


Ok I call her about an 1 hour later... We talk and I am being ****y and funny the whole time. she is doing the same being really scarcastic with me and I am giving it right back to her.

We have a date set for tomorrow. I really hope I bang this girl.



GIRL FROM APPROACH #3 didn't call. I called her and left her a message. If she doesn't call me by tomorrow there is a 98% chance she will flake....

I sure as hell will not call her again. The girl that I thought had no chance of flaking may actually flake......
 

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MY strategy for the date...

1. Get into a sexual state.
2. Visualize that I am a porn star and my job is fvck this girl
3. Remember that I am the prize.
4. Read Gunwitch.
5 Talk slow and confident. It is not what u say but how....
6. Have a positive energy.
7 MOST IMPORTANTLY AM GOING TO DEVELOP KINO RIGHT AWAY> AM GOING TO TELL HER, THAT NIGHT THAT I KISSED YOU, YOU WERE A GREAT KISSER. I MAY HAVE HAD A FEW TOO MANY, LET ME SEE IF YOUR AS GREAT AS I THOUGHT YOU WERE. THAN I AM JUST GOING TO KISS HER PASSIONATELY. RIGHT OF THE BAT I AM GOING TO SET THE TONE FOR SEX.... WILL KEEP EVERYONE POSTED.:up:
 

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approach 4 is money!! nuff said!! you should be able to get 2out of 2 from what youve written.

should be on liek donkey kong. Her whole attitude plus she hits you up alot.. the thing that clinched it htough was the counter-offer date in my eyes. When a chick rejects your date and counter offers and then follows up.. it means something..

good luck.. u wont need it hah!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hey I got the date with approach 4 set up for tonight..... Hopefully everything goes smoothly and she doesn't flake... I will for sure post the date report. Hopefully I will get laid...

Approach#3 left me a voicemail saying she is going to be at a club with some of her GF and if me and my friends want to meet them there.

I am going to text apprach 3 and tell her thanks for invite but I am working. I am also going to tell her how cute her voice sounds.... ANd tell her that i will be available for tommorow...


Hopefully will have a good night to night and will post My date report..

Sarge on fellas:up:
 
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