"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my next problem :(

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toddC

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Okay, so last post I discussed the kinoing, the eye contact, and the talking...
Since then I've goten that down quite well.

So this weekend comes and I'm quite exited because there were a lot of partiest both Friday and Saturday night.

Friday: My friend and I got 2 freshman to roll with us and we partied. The HB7.5 was responding well to EC and kino but for some reason nothing happened.

Saturday: Partied with people in my grade (senior). So the night went well. Towards the end of the night I get a call from this HB 8 in my development to come over at around 1 with my boys because her girls are sleepin over and we can chill. So I get there and this HB8.5 was all over me then she had to leave and her friend was EC'ing me but I did nothing.

So my new problem is.....
WHY CAN I SEAL THE DEAL BUT NOT MAKE A MOVE?!?! ...this has NEVER happend to me before like I'm usually ontop of a girl but not these past few weeks...WHY!?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Most likely you have other things on your mind. But if I was in your position, I would of found out what a 6um or 7um feels like. If it was you and a buddy, and there were twelve girls, the means six for the both of you. Just have a ball, don't forget to stop by the drug store first.
 
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can't smoke for another 4-5 weeks..gotta get a job :) and alchol was there don't worry :) but yea next week i'm hopefully just going to go for it and scorrrreee...
 
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I think he meant drug store for when you got down to making a move ;)
 
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