"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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my next problem :(

toddC

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Okay, so last post I discussed the kinoing, the eye contact, and the talking...
Since then I've goten that down quite well.

So this weekend comes and I'm quite exited because there were a lot of partiest both Friday and Saturday night.

Friday: My friend and I got 2 freshman to roll with us and we partied. The HB7.5 was responding well to EC and kino but for some reason nothing happened.

Saturday: Partied with people in my grade (senior). So the night went well. Towards the end of the night I get a call from this HB 8 in my development to come over at around 1 with my boys because her girls are sleepin over and we can chill. So I get there and this HB8.5 was all over me then she had to leave and her friend was EC'ing me but I did nothing.

So my new problem is.....
WHY CAN I SEAL THE DEAL BUT NOT MAKE A MOVE?!?! ...this has NEVER happend to me before like I'm usually ontop of a girl but not these past few weeks...WHY!?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Most likely you have other things on your mind. But if I was in your position, I would of found out what a 6um or 7um feels like. If it was you and a buddy, and there were twelve girls, the means six for the both of you. Just have a ball, don't forget to stop by the drug store first.
 

toddC

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can't smoke for another 4-5 weeks..gotta get a job :) and alchol was there don't worry :) but yea next week i'm hopefully just going to go for it and scorrrreee...
 

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I think he meant drug store for when you got down to making a move ;)
 
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