"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My newest Trick

oda

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I'm sure there are 100's of variations or exact replicas of my trick, but I am just reshowing what worked for me:

I'll be honest, I'm known as the stoner type, I'm a fun fun guy to be with, very humorous... I am smart athletic and I don't let people walk all over me.

This girl is National Honors Society President, Runs multiple school functions on her lonesome, she is athletic, humorous and has her wild party side.

I always viewed this girl as untouchable to me... some of my friends were after her, but I could see their AFCness in every attempt.

So one night we are at a party and I decided then and there I will start my quest to get her. In my mind I mapped out the next week.

Day 1 (present night) - Show high interest level, but never reveal any feelings, just hint.
Day 2 - Just say hello once during the day, then totally lose focus on her... and give my focus to something way less pleasing than her (so she wonders why)
Day 3-5 - Completely shut her off. If she attempts to contact me phone (dont answer) online (dont answer) in person (repeat day 2)
Day 6 - Wait for girl to start convo... figure out what she is doing for that night, see if she wants to come out with me for the night.

Needless to say, it worked like a charm...

All of my and her friends can't quite figure out what I did to get her. Most of her friends have mentioned to me at one time that she does not stop talking about me, which is interesting.


This is my first time ever using this approach and this girl is amazing, hourglass shape, beautiful face, all around girl you want to be with.... VIRGIN, no grudges against guys as a whole :) you get it.

So go out and try it, let me know.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LikRetsam

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Nice!
 

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Really good man, really good. So it all went exactly as planned and no **** ups?
 

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thats a good strategy.

but you must remember..it will not always work. whatever you did with that girl triggered some sort of unavoidable attraction for you which is a good thing. the converstation and things you did with her during day 1 caused all that. so keep it up. i for one can vouch for this..ive done something similiar to it with much success.

Keep it up and lets us know what has happened so far.
 
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