"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My new year's resolution: COMPLETELY overhaul my attitude when it comes to girls.

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haha mayhem mayhem mayhem... your a funny guy, you have it in you man, but she said it, there was no chemistry.. if you want ANY chance with this girl... i mean this is LAST CHANCE (in my eyes) try this.. you said same college probably right? get your punk as*, forget her for now.. and start reading the DJ bible.. get your self into the DJ state of mind because right now, your being such an AFC (im not trying to be rude, im giving you the honest truth)
Learn the ways of a DJ and maybe, pick up your game, become the guy you've wanted to be, be a man, and just maybe you will have a chance later knowing how to get that "chemistry" with her. So put that women on the back burner!

And try this too... since you don't have time to read.. DELETE HALO FROM YOUR LIFE AND COD4! You just countered your self and being lazy, you can't get the ladys by being lazy... And mastacheef is a whole notha meaning bro :) figure it out

p.s. haha halo is fun n all but i dont game online or play it that much, ****ty internet anyways ha.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mastacheef said:
haha mayhem mayhem mayhem... your a funny guy, you have it in you man, but she said it, there was no chemistry.. if you want ANY chance with this girl... i mean this is LAST CHANCE (in my eyes) try this.. you said same college probably right? get your punk as*, forget her for now.. and start reading the DJ bible.. get your self into the DJ state of mind because right now, your being such an AFC (im not trying to be rude, im giving you the honest truth)
Learn the ways of a DJ and maybe, pick up your game, become the guy you've wanted to be, be a man, and just maybe you will have a chance later knowing how to get that "chemistry" with her. So put that women on the back burner!

And try this too... since you don't have time to read.. DELETE HALO FROM YOUR LIFE AND COD4! You just countered your self and being lazy, you can't get the ladys by being lazy... And mastacheef is a whole notha meaning bro :) figure it out

p.s. haha halo is fun n all but i dont game online or play it that much, ****ty internet anyways ha.

I really need to change my name, you saying mayhem 3 times toook up like half the line hahaha. But yeah man, I want you to be honest with me, I don't get offended easily and I mean you can talk **** to me all day, I won't care lol. But yeah, it might be that this girl just brings down my confidence, because after she rejected me, I felt like my confidence was dominated, I know this because today my friend tried to get with her.... and he said the same thing.
 

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haha mayhem mayhem mayhem... your a funny guy, you have it in you man, but she said it, there was no chemistry.. if you want ANY chance with this girl... i mean this is LAST CHANCE (in my eyes) try this.. you said same college probably right? get your punk as*, forget her for now.. and start reading the DJ bible.. get your self into the DJ state of mind because right now, your being such an AFC (im not trying to be rude, im giving you the honest truth)
Learn the ways of a DJ and maybe, pick up your game, become the guy you've wanted to be, be a man, and just maybe you will have a chance later knowing how to get that "chemistry" with her. So put that women on the back burner!

And try this too... since you don't have time to read.. DELETE HALO FROM YOUR LIFE AND COD4! You just countered your self and being lazy, you can't get the ladys by being lazy... And mastacheef is a whole notha meaning bro :) figure it out

p.s. haha halo is fun n all but i dont game online or play it that much, ****ty internet anyways ha.

I really need to change my name, you saying mayhem 3 times toook up like half the line hahaha. But yeah man, I want you to be honest with me, I don't get offended easily and I mean you can talk **** to me all day, I won't care lol. But yeah, it might be that this girl just brings down my confidence, because after she rejected me, I felt like my confidence was dominated, I know this because today my friend tried to get with her.... and he said the same thing.


And you have it in you too man, the inner sex god lol.
 

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haha mayhem mayhem mayhem... your a funny guy, you have it in you man, but she said it, there was no chemistry.. if you want ANY chance with this girl... i mean this is LAST CHANCE (in my eyes) try this.. you said same college probably right? get your punk as*, forget her for now.. and start reading the DJ bible.. get your self into the DJ state of mind because right now, your being such an AFC (im not trying to be rude, im giving you the honest truth)
Learn the ways of a DJ and maybe, pick up your game, become the guy you've wanted to be, be a man, and just maybe you will have a chance later knowing how to get that "chemistry" with her. So put that women on the back burner!

And try this too... since you don't have time to read.. DELETE HALO FROM YOUR LIFE AND COD4! You just countered your self and being lazy, you can't get the ladys by being lazy... And mastacheef is a whole notha meaning bro :) figure it out

p.s. haha halo is fun n all but i dont game online or play it that much, ****ty internet anyways ha.

I really need to change my name, you saying mayhem 3 times toook up like half the line hahaha. But yeah man, I want you to be honest with me, I don't get offended easily and I mean you can talk **** to me all day, I won't care lol. But yeah, it might be that this girl just brings down my confidence, because after she rejected me, I felt like my confidence was dominated, I know this because today my friend tried to get with her.... and he said the same thing.


And you have it in you too man, the inner sex god lol. I can feel it through my monitor when I look hover above your replies.
 

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ahh tripple post O_O guess it lagged. Sorry about that lol, *turns off porn* hahahha jk
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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theres so many threads about confidence.. stop being a pvssy and read them! YOU PVSSY! you want to be a pvssy the rest of your life? pvssys don't get pvssy! d*cks get pvssy! d*cks have confidence! be a d*ck and next that girl and leave her no room for the friendzone!

ha hows that? offended yet? haha im jp man :p
 

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mastacheef said:
theres so many threads about confidence.. stop being a pvssy and read them! YOU PVSSY! you want to be a pvssy the rest of your life? pvssys don't get pvssy! d*cks get pvssy! d*cks have confidence! be a d*ck and next that girl and leave her no room for the friendzone!

ha hows that? offended yet? haha im jp man :p


Hahahahha that made me laugh actually, 10 LAWL points to you dude.


But I don't COMPLETELY lack confidence, I'm to the point where I can comfortably talk to girls and crap, its just most of the stuff past that I suck in, such as staying out of the friend zone haha, really need to work on that.
 

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Why do I have a habit of putting commas everywhere too? I need to work on that as well :yes:
 

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Ok, I didn't text her for like 2 days and today she texted me "Hey whats up?"


What should I do? Does this mean theres a chance? Someone tell me what to say
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude you say you don't have time to read the bible because you have a life, well I'm here to tell you that you DONT, this chick has your life. Your overanalyzing. "Hey whats up?" means "Hey whats up?". Chicks hate losing people out of their life so don't worry about losing, she will always come crawling back.

I don't think you have a chance with her. You are clearly JUST FRIENDS and your mindset supports this. Stop being stubborn, read the DJ bible and hit on some other chicks already. If she sees you with other girls you might have a chance sometime, but not now.
 

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SinJester said:
Dude you say you don't have time to read the bible because you have a life, well I'm here to tell you that you DONT, this chick has your life. Your overanalyzing. "Hey whats up?" means "Hey whats up?". Chicks hate losing people out of their life so don't worry about losing, she will always come crawling back.

I don't think you have a chance with her. You are clearly JUST FRIENDS and your mindset supports this. Stop being stubborn, read the DJ bible and hit on some other chicks already. If she sees you with other girls you might have a chance sometime, but not now.
true to that :rockon:
 

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SinJester said:
Dude you say you don't have time to read the bible because you have a life, well I'm here to tell you that you DONT, this chick has your life. Your overanalyzing. "Hey whats up?" means "Hey whats up?". Chicks hate losing people out of their life so don't worry about losing, she will always come crawling back.

I don't think you have a chance with her. You are clearly JUST FRIENDS and your mindset supports this. Stop being stubborn, read the DJ bible and hit on some other chicks already. If she sees you with other girls you might have a chance sometime, but not now.
Yeah, basically what he said. 'Hey whats up' isn't code for '**** me', it's just wondering where you are. Chances are, you'll never get her though. The best you can do is get her hooks out of you by a) doing what you are doing, and shutting her out of her life. You can continue to be friends if you want, but be aware you may fall into old habbits. And by b) looking for some FRESH BLOOD.
 

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haha I know, I'm not overanalyzing, I'm just provding updates. Now today something a little more interesting happened... she told me that me ignore her is immature and I said that's ok.


Obviously shes trying to stay friends with me but this still doesnt mean she wants me right?
 

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I want to be friends with her because ignoring her makes me seem like an *******. But what if I just start liking her again? I'll be in this loop, that's what I'm worried about.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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