"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My New Workout Routine

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I have recently started a new workout routine. It combines doing 2 heavy sets for 10 reps on a compound exercise supplemented with 1 light set of 20 reps of another exercise for that same part. I do this routine M,W,F alternating between upper body and lower body.

Upper Body
Chin Ups 2x10 (Pulldowns 1x20)
Dips 2x10 (Push Ups 1x20)
Bench Presses 2x10 (Incline Presses 1x20)
Military Presses 2x10 (Lateral Raises 1x20)

Lower Body
Squats 2x10 (Leg Press 1x20)
Deadlifts 2x10 (Bent Rows or Leg Curls 1x20)
Calf Raises 2x10 (Seated Calf Raises 1x20)

Abs are done on lower body days. 3x20 crunches and 3x20 reverse crunches.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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EFFORT

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What are your stats, what is your weightlifting experience like, what are your goals?



Answer these and we can help you
 

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Originally posted by ZW52
Upper Body
Chin Ups 2x10 (Pulldowns 1x20)
Dips 2x10 (Push Ups 1x20)
Bench Presses 2x10 (Incline Presses 1x20)
Military Presses 2x10 (Lateral Raises 1x20)

Lower Body
Squats 2x10 (Leg Press 1x20)
Deadlifts 2x10 (Bent Rows or Leg Curls 1x20)
Calf Raises 2x10 (Seated Calf Raises 1x20)
The calves seem kinda redundant to me... how about 2x10 with a stretch at the bottom.

I'd say instead of 2x10, make it 2x6 and go heavier on all the compounds.
 

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Good to see some compound movements in there, but can I ask why you put that last 1x20 set in?

I prefer to go real hard on the first two (or three) working sets then have nothing left.
 

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Originally posted by ZW52


Lower Body
Squats 2x10 (Leg Press 1x20)
Deadlifts 2x10 (Bent Rows or Leg Curls 1x20)
Any minute now Warboss Alex is going to pop in and say if you can do deadlifts and squats the same day you're not doing either of them right... and i'm pretty sure i'd cry if i did them same day.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you're talking about STIFF LEG DEADS on leg day thats ok - but not 'normal' deads.

Ive been doing:

SQUATS

SL DEADS

CALF RISES

... on my leg days for the past year and have grown well with that.

SL DEADS work your hams (back of upper leg), squats work your quads (front of upper leg) - whereas normal deads work your quads just like squats, thats why you shouldnt perform 'normal' deads on leg day.

Think im right... :p
 

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yeah, i can't believe i missed that squat/dl on the same day... that's a no-no.

Here's what you could do.....
1) 2x6 squat + 1x20 leg curl + 2x8 bent over rows week1
2) 2x6 deadlift + 1x20 leg press week2
3) 2x6 SLDL + 1x20 leg press week 3
Repeat from beginning
 

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There is nothing wrong with Squatting and Deadlifting on the same day. I've seen successful programs that called for squats, DLs, and bench in one session.
 

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Originally posted by Aaron B
There is nothing wrong with Squatting and Deadlifting on the same day. I've seen successful programs that called for squats, DLs, and bench in one session.
but a smaller amount of volume as far as sets go and a shorter rest time as far as rest days in between.
 

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Originally posted by Aaron B
There is nothing wrong with Squatting and Deadlifting on the same day. I've seen successful programs that called for squats, DLs, and bench in one session.
then your weights aren't heavy enough.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I like that routine. Me, I hate routine....I do whatever that comes to mind. I make sure that all of my body is worked out evenily. I just started working out.
 

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I'd say no bro.

You just said 10 sets of 3 at 80% of ORM. I haven't maxxed in a while, but using a one rep max calculator, that shows me you're not pushing hard enough.

looking at the numbers the calculator put up.... 3 at 80% of my 1RM would be damn easy. 10 sets... eh, more of a cardio workout, but that's just too little weight. Push it up to 90% or so of your 1RM and do 6. Try that on your squat, and then drop it down to 80% of THAT, and do 20.

Then... tell me you feel like doing heavy deads.
 
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**** CALCULATORS!

Pick a weight and lift it. If it feels heavy (3 reps a set or less) then its good. If it doesnt it wont do **** except get you a little toned (see FAT LOSS).

Are you lifting for muscle or just to say "Look at me guys I can lift too! Yaay."

Cause if youre not, get a ****ing stairclimber.
 
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