"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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my new opener

l23

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Hey guys
I would like to share this with you. 1 day I was talking to friends and we were wondering if walking up to a girl and tell her she has nice boobs would be a good pick up line. We were just joking and a girl in thee group said that it wouldn't work but we decided to give it a try.
Last saturday, we went to a party and the thought cam in my mind. I told my friend to show me a girl and I'd say it to her. He showed me an HB 8.5/9, I walked up 2 her, grabbed her hand and said(w/ eye contact):
"Hey, slap me if u want but I have to say that u have the sexiest boobs I've seen 2night". she smiled n said thank u and squeezed my hand which I saw as an IOI , introduced herself, n told me she was goin 2 the bathroom n that we'll dance when she comes back. When she left, the cops broke the party n since there were a lot of ppl, I lost her. When I was going back to the car she saw me n introduced me 2 her friends, I had 2 go, so we xchanged numbers n I left.
I did it again yesterday. We went to a party( which sucked), and when I was living, I saw 2 HBs walking back 2 the party, the hot one was behind. I stopped her n used the same line. She gave me the same look as the 1st girl n I could tell she loved it. we exchanged names n numbers. It took me less than 1mn 2 number close her.
I also said it 2 another girl last saturday but she walked away.
It worked 2 out of 3 times. So guys that's it. tell me what u think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Daddy The Pimp

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I dont know man . Maybe they loved it because it takes lot of balls to say that . But personally , i wouldnt expect results . Maybe ill try it because i like experimenting but ill not expect anything .
I think you were lucky and you opened some girls that really wanna hookup at party or were a bit drunk . Anyway thanks for sharing :D . Peace
 

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Not to pee in your cornflakes, but aggressive openers are what they are.

Here's what I see as being the real problem in knowing how effective your approach was.

You got a number. That's it. You have no rapport with the woman, except that she was intrigued enough to give her number (which a lot of girls will do fairly easily these days), and you only got the reaction from her when she was out having a good time, in state, and possibly drunk.

There's a very good chance that you'll call her and she will not remember who you are. You'll end up phoning her just as she's leaving church and say "Oh, I was the guy who told you that you had a nice rack." :)

Not being negative-it took some balls to do it. But I'd be more interested in hearing how the follow up goes before it can be decided whether this works or not.
 

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you did the MODE ONE style.

MODE one is a book that tells you to be very bold with chicks, like hey i wanna ****. and stuff like that.

it has worked with me. i asked once a girl to dance with me and she said why, and i said because i had a huge co.ck lol
 
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