"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My new mission (anti dump all the way woooo)

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I'm writing this down so that i can keep track.

Well I've just bombed 1 of my girls out, put them on the back page anyways. One is left completly in love, and I did Ross jeffries thing, where you leave the girl better than you found her despite her crazy oneitis.

My new mission is rebounded grl and girl in relationship. the rebounded girl is on and off with her b/f whos shes madly in love with. My goal is to phase shift that love from her ex to me (like I did with the other girl). I know that as soon as her b/f finds out about me, he'll want her back. Anywyas I was just talking to her on MSN and number tied her (of course I know her in person). I need to knock my status above hers whilst lowering her exs.

the girl with the b/f will be a piece of piss. I'm meeting her tomoz to have a drink with her n her friends. the girls b/f is in the army, she flirts with me on MSN as we dont hang out much anymore.

Also I have my little dj girl whos the one I want most.

I have one who wont stop texting me 8 odd times a day. I think that i'll text her weds saying i jus put cred in my phone.

Theres also one msn girl, who I met once in a club whos worth a bit of my time.

i have like 1 female friend too who wants to set me up with her mate.

anyways if anyone has any ideas for dates, how to make her fall deeply into oneits let me know.


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rule 1, theres always another girl or 10
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OMFG I jus battled over the girl who has a b/f. Shes broke up with her b/f BUT this guy was seriously hitting on her :eek: I never battle over girls, **** they either want me or they dont, but tonight i thought screw it. I was AMOGing him and running routines on her, I showed her my phone where some girl kept phoning me. In the end of course I won!! but was it worth the effort, I might bomb her out for acting like she has more status than me!!

I hope all my challenges dont take this much effort to win.

it was nice to put all my keyboard jokeying to practice though.
 

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Jus speaking to last nights girl n shes given me a gd review.

Now for the girl whos jus broken up with her ex, I want to keep it kinda friendly but Game her like mad. It will be my 3rd go at running hard game. The marriage role play is the one I used to build attraction. i slow my voice down when i get to the part about us getting back together.
 

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Let me get this straight, your goal is to get as many of these girls to fall in love with you as possible? What is this going to accomplish? It sounds like you need them to fall in love with you to reassure you that you're able to be loved.
 

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Better that than having them think I'll be a great friend. it seems everytime there is a girl I really liked in the past I blew it. Now after mastering this I can get a girl i feel worthy, and make her so into me after 1 date that i can flip the script and make her chase.

My goal is to make every hot girl I talk to get a big attraction.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hb8 (grl 2) and i jus txt eachother. I asked said to her "so when are you free?"

hb8 depends "depends"

s0lid "depends on what?"

hb8 "where u taking me :p"

havnt replied so far. A night drive to the beach sounds like a plan though. hmmmmmm Im not paying 4 nething for her.

This girl would make a nice g/f.
 

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"My goal is to make every hot girl I talk to get a big attraction."

There is something wrong with this. It sounds like you have deeper issues here than not being able to get a woman.

It sounds like you're so spiteful of what girls have done to you in the past, that you feel like you have to get them to love you just so you can hurt them to get back at them. Then you feel 'attractive' and 'loveable' again and your ego is appeased.

You might want to seriously sit down an explore your reasons for wanting "Every hot girl to get a big attraction to you." It's one thing to get a girl to like you so that you can have a great time together, it's another thing to get her to love you so that you can turn your back on her for kicks.
 

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Originally posted by xblitz44x
It sounds like you're so spiteful of what girls have done to you in the past, that you feel like you have to get them to love you just so you can hurt them to get back at them. Then you feel 'attractive' and 'loveable' again and your ego is appeased.
That pretty accurately sums it up. Go and seek professional help.
 

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Lol, no i trial girls and if i feel they are worthy then i'll get with them period.
 

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I'm with xblitz here, but we can only tell you what you SHOULD do. The rest is up to you.

Obviously, you won't listen anyway, so I'll throw in my two cents for what you want to accomplish...

anyways if anyone has any ideas for dates, how to make her fall deeply into oneits let me know.
If you want these chicks to have one-itis for you, hot and cold them. Give them the emotional rollercoaster ride. If you can give them a better ride than their bfs, you'll be gold.

For example, tell her "You'd look really hot dripping wet". The pour a little bit of water on her head (make sure it's fvcking cold). She'll be in shock over what you did. Then tell her "Hey, I was right, you do look hot!"

This gets her emotions going high and low. It's going from one extreme to the other (nice to jerk to nice). After the "date", she'll be thinking about her night out with you, running over the hot/cold treatment you gave her, and re-living the emotions you stirred up. The point is, she's THINKING ABOUT YOU. And she'll be thinking about you a lot.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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deangelos 2 steps forward 1 step back.

Just because you guys beleive somethings right or wrong doesnt make it true. Basically we all see a filtered version of the world, nobody sees the true picture. My reality is different to yours.

Another one of my goals is to get a g/f
 

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Another one of my goals is to get a g/f


dont get mad when this gf breaks your heart.

like u are messign with people now.

thats called abuse.

women are weaker then men u are taking adv of it
 

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"Just because you guys beleive somethings right or wrong doesnt make it true."

Whatever helps you ignore the real issue here: The fact that you're trying to get girls to love you for no other reason than to convince yourself that you can.
 

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It's called being selective, but flame me if ya want. you've said your opinion, you've repeated your opinion. i see what your saying, but I'm not leading these girls on. As soon as I feel their not worth it i next them (I nexted another one today as I heared shes a sl*t). In about a year I'll be with hb9s and people will ask how the hell i do it ;)

When I started this I was struggling getting 5s, I was convinced that i'd end up marrying the first fat bird who selected me!! Now i'm regularly getting 7 and 8s. Anyways I dont need to qualify myself to you.

dont take me saying falling in love so litularly my little keyboard jokeys.
 

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Let me reword it all. My goal when i meet a girl is to create massive attraction. If I like her, I'll continue meeting her if i dont i next her, any flakeyness NEXT. Basically anti dump machine.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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" In about a year I'll be with hb9s and people will ask how the hell i do it"

"Anyways I dont need to qualify myself to you."


Apparently you do, since it's your goal to score "9's" to show off to your buddies.

"I'll continue meeting her if i dont i next her, any flakeyness NEXT. Basically anti dump machine."

Wouldn't that make you a dump machine?

Do whatever makes you feel good, but you can quote me: This won't make you happy.
 

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Apparently we both are.
 

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Thats great man!

tomoz i meet the DJ grl hb8. Shes the one I want to get with most, her nickname is lara croft. I like the fact shes stunning and really intelligent.

i met this girl in a night club. She had really high IL, kept giving me heavy eye contact. I walked over, flipped open my phone and said put ya number in, job done.

met her again in a club, then we went to the cinema another time.

This time I told her we're going to play pool.

I want this girl as a g/f. I would bomb all the other grls out for her, but lets just see what happens.

If anyone wants to see pics of these girls I meet just PM me and ask for my MSN, I have a few pics of some of the girls I've met and about 3 recents.
 

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My new mission is rebounded grl and girl in relationship. the rebounded girl is on and off with her b/f whos shes madly in love with. My goal is to phase shift that love from her ex to me (like I did with the other girl).
I dont agree with this.

but if you actually get her love from him to you...

thats tough shyt to do..mad props for that
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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