"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My New Goal - HB wallpaper

syncmaster

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Ok - i have a super small digital camera. I want to work into a pickup of taking a picture of the SHB & Me. I'm doing this for a couple of reasons.

First so i can associate a face w/ a phone number.

2nd and more importantly... to brag :D
I'm gonna make some wallpaper. Should be funny when I bring buddies over... It could be a problem when i bring girls though.

I'll let you know how it goes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by locarius
We'll have to work on a 'take a picture with me' opener.
There already is one, I think style or Mystery created it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"I need to get my cats approval before I can call you..."


"You know that feeling you get when you wish later on that you had a photo of when you first met?... you know, for the restraining order. This is my safety net incease you get creepy."
 
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