My new goal and why (which might turn into a journal)

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Indifference Kills

Don Juan

Sep 6, 2006

Challenge

I have a challenge for anyone man enough to take it. Im leaving this board for a month. Starting today, I will not return to sosauve, read David Ds sht, or come to the forum. This has become a crutch. And a crutch is only good while your leg is broken. So as long as a continue to use it, it only holdin me back. Everytime i think about gettin on here, I'm going to go out and actually be sociable, be cool. Fvck this site for awhile. Its holding me back now, its giving me excuses for why i dont talk to that girl or approach her. So whenever i make it back i will.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=108193
later
me

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.