"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My new gf and ex gf in club

salsalero

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Hey guys,

I broke up with me ex over 2 months ago and so I got a new gf a couple of weeks later.

We are dating now over a month and I took her over the weekend to a club and my ex was there.

To make a long story short. I ignored my ex and her friends and as the night progressed my new gf went with another gal friend of mine to the toilet and my ex and her friend followed her to the toilet and my ex bumped into her hard with her shoulder.

My new gf wanted to beat her, but the other gal said it will get them banned in club and on premises.

So further in the night i danced with my new gf and other gal and sat down.

So my ex decided to dance in front of us the whole time with other guys. My new gf sat on my lap on chair.

What do u guys think of why my ex will do this?

:)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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beaker

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roissy pretty much breaks down the why's every day in his blog, citizen renegade.
 

Asasione

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Your ex is just bitter that you found someone else yet she's alone. Good thing you dumped her she seems like a classless woman to pull off stunts like those. Dancing with guys infront of you is simply her trying to make you jealous and to illicit some response from you. She just wanted your attention and if you gave her any she'd know you still cared. The satisfaction of knowing she can affect you or have you is what she was after. All for sake of her ego
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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