"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My new Dilema- How do I meet her?

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Aazman

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So basically I'm new into this "game". Just started gaming but the problem is in a girl I've seen. I did the mistake of adding her on Fb- since meeting her in person was difficult since I don't have any means of meeting her without going past security of her apartment. (not reached stalker level thank god! ) Please Note- I haven't met her yet. the issue is HOW DO I MEET HER?

So I added her, pretended it was an incorrect add, but still chatted. Problem was I kinda said too much about myself- aka ex's etc. Yeah I'm still learning. Now she could tell I was witty etc. and I figured her out. So I had enough of fb, since I had exams, so I deactivated. Just before I did, I messaged her my number. Since strike 1 was a failure. She later texted me back after a few days of deactivating my account. So i've kept my account deactivated. Now she sends random texts, however I showed a bit too much enthusiasm in repsonse. (i didn't respond asap but I still responded to some pretty aimless texts).

So now I'm over that - OH shes amazing and I love her phase- so for me, the "game" is on.

BUT and this is the big but

Seeing her in person is difficult, since we go to the same uni, but different courses. Now I've already told her I can lend her a book. The alternative is to go with a friend to meet her friends, and not meet her. I'm guessing her friends will speak to her about me. We have one mutual friend- so it would have to be through him.

I don't mind dropping the game, but I just want it in the bag. If you get what i mean...

If you have any alternative methods or tips- PLEASE TELL ME. I'm still a noob- so it helps :)

Cheers
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Grab your balls with your left hand, pickup your phone in your right hand, dial her number, when she picks up, chat her up a bit and then set up a "Hey, let's go for coffee <date:time> at <location>".
 
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SandHawk said:
Grab your balls with your left hand, pickup your phone in your right hand, dial her number, when she picks up, chat her up a bit and then set up a "Hey, let's go for coffee <date:time> at <location>".
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Actually if you're grabbing your balls and talking at the same time you could just cut the small talk and suggest phone sex :whistle:.

Seriously though, you're thinking way too much. If you don't want to ask her out on an actual date just ask her to tag along to something you're going to (gig etc.)
 
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well the thing is, I want to get to know her better before seeing her as a potential date. What would you MikeyB think maybe of a venue for that? I'm in the UK too- so coffee isnt really a popular option. Nando's?

And lets get my ego sorted here- holding my balls with both my hands, and speakerphone chat...
 
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For example if you've been talking about some movie that's playing you could say "I've been wanting to see this movie for a while, let's go this weekend." Or if you want to make it coffee say "let's check out this new cafe they have on king street." You get the idea. It doesn't have to be insanely creative but this way you don't build up so much pressure by asking her on a "date".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Aazman said:
So basically I'm new into this "game". Just started gaming but the problem is in a girl I've seen. I did the mistake of adding her on Fb- since meeting her in person was difficult since I don't have any means of meeting her without going past security of her apartment. (not reached stalker level thank god! ) Please Note- I haven't met her yet. the issue is HOW DO I MEET HER?

So I added her, pretended it was an incorrect add, but still chatted. Problem was I kinda said too much about myself- aka ex's etc. Yeah I'm still learning. Now she could tell I was witty etc. and I figured her out. So I had enough of fb, since I had exams, so I deactivated. Just before I did, I messaged her my number. Since strike 1 was a failure. She later texted me back after a few days of deactivating my account. So i've kept my account deactivated. Now she sends random texts, however I showed a bit too much enthusiasm in repsonse. (i didn't respond asap but I still responded to some pretty aimless texts).

So now I'm over that - OH shes amazing and I love her phase- so for me, the "game" is on.

BUT and this is the big but

Seeing her in person is difficult, since we go to the same uni, but different courses. Now I've already told her I can lend her a book. The alternative is to go with a friend to meet her friends, and not meet her. I'm guessing her friends will speak to her about me. We have one mutual friend- so it would have to be through him.

I don't mind dropping the game, but I just want it in the bag. If you get what i mean...

If you have any alternative methods or tips- PLEASE TELL ME. I'm still a noob- so it helps :)

Cheers
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Dude... why analyze so much?? You're giving me nerves lol.

txt her, lets meet up, then meet her. Less of this nerdyness.
 
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