"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My new date idea

skinnyguy

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Most of the girls I date have never played golf. So when I say we'll hit the course on our first date, they say "that sounds like so much fun". It's a cheap date ($10 for a bucket of balls and I have clubs), plus I get to feel them up since they don't know what they're doing and need instruction.

I used to do dinner and drinks, and boy that was a waste of time and money. You set yourself up to get friendzoned because she'll start to think of you as a meal ticket. Golf is more active and playful and the conversation is natural. If you help her sink a chip or a putt, she'll think you're a God lol. I did this with my last gf. ;)

You don't have to be a pro - just take some lessons and learn how to drive the ball at least 150 yards or so. I'm starting to think that dates during the day are way better in terms of the interaction. Nighttime dates, in my experiences, get a little bit tricky unless she's already your girl.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Slickster

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Absolutely!

Day time dates are great.

I've done golf and mini golf to great success too.

I remember showing up to a chicks house with takeout sushi and a canoe on top of my vehicle and her eyes popped out of her head. She couldn't believe it. We paddled out to a private spot on a nearby lake and went skinny dipping and had a picnic She LOVED it.
 

Heisenburger

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Great idea mate. I'll give that one a try.

Here are some dates that I have done with good success -

1. Street art on the pavement - really gets both of you out of your comfort zone.

2. You and the girl drawing some landscape out in the park. You draw one side of the picture and she draws the other side. Let her keep it. My date stuck it on her fridge.

These are ideas that are out of the ordinary and will across as memorable. Give it a try!
 

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Good sh!t. I have also done:
-Tailgate picnic - two subway salads on the tailgate of my truck at a park
- hike at the state park
- dancing lesson
All fun, different, cheap
 
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