Glumix
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 23, 2015
- Messages
- 334
- Reaction score
- 292
- Age
- 44
As you may know or not, I dumped my WhateverPD-ex 1 month ago and met another girl about 1 week later. She cames out of the blue as I wanted to spend a few time alone and didn't really expected it.
When I met her I noticed a bandage on her wrist and asked her about it. She told me she cut her tendons. I asked her how she did that. She replied: "Did something stupid". OK... Put that in up my mind, demoted her to FB, made a promise to myself that as soon as disrespect and non-fun sh!t would hit the fan she's out of my life.
Had some fun with her, had sex, etc... The day after sex she wrote me a long text about how she cannot engage in a relationship, I am so nice, but... blah blah blah. This is non-fun sh!t hitting the fan. I told her she can call me back if she want fun, but only fun, that I respect her even though she's broken.
I am now in soft-NC mode. She can reach me out if she want but I am not contacting her anymore.
During the last 5 years, I dated about 6-7 girls. They were ALL crazy. BPD abuser, egocentric orgasm
simulatrice, one girl was crying in the shower asking me to tell her she is beautiful, another wanted a baby so badly she probably went straight to the sperm-bank after I dumped her, 2 of them have had suicidal behavior.
So I wonder, do I attract only crazies, am I too picky and should I tolerate more (nope, nope, nope) or are really 80% of 28+ women crazy and the goal is to simply not letting them enter your life (that's the goal obviously)?
Is this a demographic problem or a common problem? I meet girls online but also offline, in sport club and doing activities.
I think I will recenter to 18-28 girls. After 28 it seems there is only junk girls. Pretty sad.
And before 24 they are only fvck material. Better than nothing.
When I met her I noticed a bandage on her wrist and asked her about it. She told me she cut her tendons. I asked her how she did that. She replied: "Did something stupid". OK... Put that in up my mind, demoted her to FB, made a promise to myself that as soon as disrespect and non-fun sh!t would hit the fan she's out of my life.
Had some fun with her, had sex, etc... The day after sex she wrote me a long text about how she cannot engage in a relationship, I am so nice, but... blah blah blah. This is non-fun sh!t hitting the fan. I told her she can call me back if she want fun, but only fun, that I respect her even though she's broken.
I am now in soft-NC mode. She can reach me out if she want but I am not contacting her anymore.
During the last 5 years, I dated about 6-7 girls. They were ALL crazy. BPD abuser, egocentric orgasm
simulatrice, one girl was crying in the shower asking me to tell her she is beautiful, another wanted a baby so badly she probably went straight to the sperm-bank after I dumped her, 2 of them have had suicidal behavior.
So I wonder, do I attract only crazies, am I too picky and should I tolerate more (nope, nope, nope) or are really 80% of 28+ women crazy and the goal is to simply not letting them enter your life (that's the goal obviously)?
Is this a demographic problem or a common problem? I meet girls online but also offline, in sport club and doing activities.
I think I will recenter to 18-28 girls. After 28 it seems there is only junk girls. Pretty sad.
And before 24 they are only fvck material. Better than nothing.