"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My neighbor is a hoe

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My neighbor, and my oneitis of my AFC days is a hoe. It's confirmed. Even recentely I wanted to hit it with her, because her ass just keeps getting bigger. But decided against that.


A hoe, that brings a different brother every week to fvck, is not my type. :kick:


A stripper, catching a bus after work, has much more value to her, than some nympho. Plus strippers are hotter, this one is only like HB5.


This is the first tail where sleeping around played a role in deciding for or against sarging a woman. Perhaps I've been placing too much value on this one, and ignoring my self and my desires. Just wanted this one because, sh1t, I don't know why. I don't want her no more.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If she's only an HB5, why was she your oneitis, and why are you so concerned with her enough to make a topic about her?

Also, do you have sex with a different girl every week? If not, would you if you could? Double standard much?
 

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Don't critisize me to understand yourself better.


Rather focus on my reality. Post is about me. I realized something new about myself.
 

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....as in a garden tool?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bates, don't confuse the sexes. Man is not woman, and the same rules don't apply to both.

And good for you Slvt. If you're going to do anything at all with a hor, it's definitely not good to develop oneitis over her. You'll just be the next pimp in line for a hor.
 

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i know that ho would get a real ego boast from knowing that some neighbor of her's cares about her minding her own business so much that he wuold take the time to write a whole big thread about her on the internet.

oneitis much?
 

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Me, mind her business? Nah...


I just notice that hoe because she parks next to me. I have security camera on my car, so I just can not not see her.


I didn't notice her, I was ignoring her for a long long time. So much so that she's ungry with me not approaching her. Who cares.


I did however, notice her ass the other day, as I was biking by. It got bigger. I bet she's stuffin it.



Now, why did I not approach before? Because I had that hunch, that she's not my type. Oneitis I had on her long time ago. It was over pretty quick too. Today, I confirm that hunch. Because I check out the cam, and there she's walking with a brother that looks different from a brother I saw the week before.


Actually, she had two different brothers over today. 1st in the morning, then same dude in the afternoon, and now another guy in the evening. That girl is eating c0ck for breakfast, launch, and dinner. I'm not nousy here, I just keep an eye on my car, and anybody who parks near me or walk by. I have this video window right on my desktop, all in the name of car. Fvck that hoe...

I'm fvcking laughing my ass off. Here I am, and there is that hoe, I don't care about that b1tch. I'm write a post about it and brag, but it's about me, not the hoe.


I have another hunch. The b1tch is so frustrated over me, that I don't approach her snazy ass, and that I bark on her and her parents for parking too close (used to anyway), that's she's now decided to get back at me by sleeping with as many men as she can. Will this d1ck approach me now? NOOOOOOOOOOOO.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Master Bates said:
Also, do you have sex with a different girl every week? If not, would you if you could? Double standard much?

Double standard?

She's a woman.
He's male.

Why SHOULDN'T there be two different sets of standards? They are two different items.

They have plenty of standards setup for men that i want nothing to do with.

Engagement rings. Pfft.
Flowers. Pfft.
I had to push the carts in the snow at night when I worked for Target way back in the day. No girls. They stayed comfy inside stocking candy and gossiping.
"Carry this cooler" - no thanks
"Mow the lawn in 90% humidity; i will load the dishwasher." - yea good trade
Pay child support but not get the kid even if you want it.

It's only to their advantage to not pass out sex left and right. It really boggles me why men even get into relationships anymore when the sex is given away freely left and right by nearly any girl anywhere.

And the other difference? Men care that a woman has screwed lots of guys. Women don't care so much if a guy has gotten around. Hell they use it as a basis for whether the guy is worth her time. "i should want him since other girls do."
 

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wow I dont think we could help you if we wanted to. Just reread what you said a couple times and it will sink in hopefully.
 
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My hunch about her getting attention from me is confirmed...


I was like walking out to drive my stang, and I see that beyotch drive up with a guy on his car. They see me so they not gonna park next to me, park somewhere else, whatever, I don't mind. So I get in the car, and hear the hoe scream in background "Him looking at my ass" or something like that..


hahahaha, I was laughing my ass off.


She got her bro to pose as her boyfriend or men she's dating, just to see if I give a sh1t. So nah, she wasn't fvcking, this whole thing was to get attention from me. B1tch.


Actually, this is rather flattering. I have a girl who I never talked to go nutz over me. So today:


A) My hunch got confirmed, girl's into me and wants my attention.

B) Because I HOT!!!!!!!. I am flattered for all the effort.

C) Did I mention that I'm HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!




Nah, dudes, forget about helping me here. I know what I'm doing. I'm like doing nothing, smoking weed, drinking beer. B1tch is thinking she's getting attention from me, but that's like the only way she can, only when it concerns my car, because I"m a car freak, ding weirdo, neighborhood ding and deng watcher. I hate them hoes that bang doors. That drives her mad. Here is this HOT!!!!!!! guy she likes, and he is paying no attention to her what so ever. :D



I'm proud of myself. Once I get my bike together, she'll see more of me
































talking to other women.
 

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Right, for the last time, a "hoe" is a gardening tool...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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