"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My Neighbor Dillemma

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I moved here a couple years ago and always knew this HB 8 lived 4 houses down. When I first moved here, I was an AFC and very obese. You're typical nice guy. (Still am to some) After years of struggle to get with women I am now physically ready to do it. Mentally though, I'm still a big boy. Now I've lost most of the weight (315 to 200, presently).

I've seen her at school since I moved here 4 years ago and dreamed of how hot she is! Up until this year, I never really met her! But this one time in a kickback, I was playing beirut with my buddies and I was just "on fire" for the whole night. (Back to back to back shots multiple times being nailed in). She was watching me nail shot after shot and win game after game and as I kept going, I heard her make sly comments like, "(name)! You're so chill!", "OMG, how come I haven't met you earlier?!", "We NEED to hang out more!".

But this is my problem.. I kinda have a thing for another girl right now (link to that problem) and my neighbor is an ex of one of my homies.. (2 years ago though...) What would you do?!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
2 years ago? Your good to go? Just depends on how good their relationship was, if it was a quick thing, with no real emotions, and he wasn't sobbing after, it's cool, if he did do all that, no go.
And, if I had two girl I liked, I'd spin plates ;)
Remember, you NEVER be exclusive unless the girl asks your FIRST.
 
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Effington said:
You go for both. Are you obligated to one?
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I am more obligated to the other girl just because I know her a lot better.. All my friends are suggesting I ask her to prom.. (And I do have a fun idea in mind) She's known me since I was a fat boy and has shown interest before. Up until I lost the weight, she's been wanting to hang out more often but I'm still used to being my old me when I'm with her. (Therefore, I don't make any moves)... Which I know is NOT alpha!

SilverSonnet said:
2 years ago? Your good to go? Just depends on how good their relationship was, if it was a quick thing, with no real emotions, and he wasn't sobbing after, it's cool, if he did do all that, no go.
And, if I had two girl I liked, I'd spin plates
Remember, you NEVER be exclusive unless the girl asks your FIRST.
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Well, they had a very serious relationship.. Her myspace has him on it as one if her heroes. I don't really understand what you're saying though.. lol
 
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Are you dating one of them? If you aren't, then you aren't obligated to them...that's where I was going with that. The length of time you've known someone does not matter, and in a lot of cases, could be more of a hinderance than benefit.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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um i didnt realize you had to be held to date just one girl, if you can get both GET BOTH son! especially if shes makin those comments

and congratrs on losin that weight
 
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