"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My MSN chat that ended in a fight.

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I don't use MSN very much. So anyway, I noticed this girl was always "offline" for the past few months so I decided to check why. It turns out that I was no longer on her list. So I added her on with a different email account and then she added me and was actually online! So I talked to her pretending to be one of her other friends. Here's the convo:

Her: Hey who is this?
Me: Jacky
Her: Oh....you got a new email adress?
Me: Yeah, what have you been doing?
Her: Not much, just chilling
Me: So how often do you block people?
Her: What?
Me: How often do you delete people from your msn list even if they treat you well?
Her: .....um....i dunno...?! i'm lost ...why?
Me: The jerkstore called and they're running out of you.
Her: who is this?
Me: You blocked me when I used my real account. And why?? I never did anything bad to you. Why the heck would you just delete me for no reason?
Her: Who is this?
Me: It doesn't matter logically who this is. The premise doesn't change.
Her: ......
Me: What? Cat got your tongue?
Her: Um I don't know who you are...I'll brb
Me: Go f*ck yourself!! I don't want to talk to you. I hope the rest of your life people will treat you like sh*t because that's exactly what you deserve. Now I'm going to block you. I can't believe I was "friends" with you and I get treated like this. You are nothing more than an ATTENTION WH*RE who strives for status. And now I'll block you for being a hypocritical b*tch.

I blocked her and that was that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I can see why she blocked you. :rolleyes:

This is a joke right?

I mean.. the jerkstore called.. cat got your tounge.. freaking out over something small.. not saying who you are.. telling her she strives for status.. that's really you? I don't want to know how you talked before. That's just sad.

Come on get a life.
 

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I don't use MSN very much. So anyway, I noticed this girl was always "offline" for the past few months so I decided to check why. It turns out that I was no longer on her list. So I added her on with a different email account and then she added me and was actually online! So I talked to her pretending to be one of her other friends. Here's the convo:

Her: Hey who is this?
Me: Jacky
Her: Oh....you got a new email adress?
Me: Yeah, what have you been doing?
Her: Not much, just chilling
Me: So how often do you block people?
Her: What?
Me: How often do you delete people from your msn list even if they treat you well?
Her: .....um....i dunno...?! i'm lost ...why?
Me: The jerkstore called and they're running out of you.
Her: who is this?
Me: You blocked me when I used my real account. And why?? I never did anything bad to you. Why the heck would you just delete me for no reason?
Her: Who is this?
Me: It doesn't matter logically who this is. The premise doesn't change.
Her: ......
Me: What? Cat got your tongue?
Her: Um I don't know who you are...I'll brb
Me: Go f*ck yourself!! I don't want to talk to you. I hope the rest of your life people will treat you like sh*t because that's exactly what you deserve. Now I'm going to block you. I can't believe I was "friends" with you and I get treated like this. You are nothing more than an ATTENTION WH*RE who strives for status. And now I'll block you for being a hypocritical b*tch.

I blocked her and that was that.
dam your one scary dude man, stalker shi* right here.
 

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Bvbidd said:
I can see why she blocked you. :rolleyes:
I agree. It's guy's with attitudes/personalities like this that denounce sarging online just because of their lack of ability. :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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George Castanza, classic! Good job man, let the ho know!
 

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jonwon said:
dam your one scary dude man, stalker shi* right here.
Why is that "stalker ****"? Have any of you seen how vindictive women can get when they're spurned? I wouldn't have even wasted my time saying that to her. But to insinuate the guy's a stalker just because he told her what he thought is ridiculous.

Men have to stop falling into that trap. Women have conditioned us to believe if we stand up to them we're "less of a man" "psycho"..whatever....They want it both ways. They think they can do all kinds of crazy shyt, then when a guy stands up to them, they suddenly become "women" again.

He didn't do anything wrong. Compared to what some bytches have pulled on me that seems really benign.
 
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Wow... WTF that was extreme AFC! you made a new account and added her just so you could prove that she blocked your real account. I hope you guys were serious LTR and broke up so you were pissed at her and decided to do it. Otherwise you need help / anger managment why would u flip out on a girl who blocked you cuz u act like a creepy stalker? seriously reread the DJ bible! :cuss:
 

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You had a hissy fit with a online-chick. Not the DJ way. :nono:
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
Why is that "stalker ****"? Have any of you seen how vindictive women can get when they're spurned? I wouldn't have even wasted my time saying that to her. But to insinuate the guy's a stalker just because he told her what he thought is ridiculous.

Men have to stop falling into that trap. Women have conditioned us to believe if we stand up to them we're "less of a man" "psycho"..whatever....They want it both ways. They think they can do all kinds of crazy shyt, then when a guy stands up to them, they suddenly become "women" again.

He didn't do anything wrong. Compared to what some bytches have pulled on me that seems really benign.
Nah. The point is he takes little things too seriously and lacks a life. Not that she may be a b!tch.

She probally is but we are telling him what made him look like a stalker.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I agree. It's guy's with attitudes/personalities like this that denounce sarging online just because of their lack of ability.
:rolleyes: I don't denounce sarging online, I've gotten many f*ck closes from myspace and other sites. Sarging online is easier than in real life because you can take your time to come up with words to reply (if it's email) or even in chat to some extent. The reason I don't do it anymore is because real life sarging gives me more excitement.

jonwon said:
dam your one scary dude man, stalker shi* right here.
I don't see how that is stalking. I wasn't following anyone or giving out threats. I just told her to go screw herself. If anything, I'm just being honest.

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you made a new account
I didn't create a new account, I already had an extra one.

The main reason why I contacted her was because I've never had a chance to use George Costanza's classic line, and I felt this was a great opportunity to use it on someone who betrayed me.
 

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ok it is staking not in the term you think but stalking none the less.

The women ditched you for what ever reason.

You assumed for starters it was negative, she may have deleted your name by mistake, there could be other reasons too, no point spelling em out, if you actually stop and think you may see some other reasons why your name was deleted.

I assume from this she deleted you because you have anger issues and you showed them to her, she has HSE and bailed on you.

Ok stalker why.

You actually went to all that trouble you wasted x amount of your life to get this girls, to get her back to teach her a lesson.

She had moved on you wanted to get her! AM i right?
What ever way you look at this you wanted to get this women and make her pay in some way for doing something negative to you.

This is stalker stuff right here!
The term stalker go look it up, this is subtle stalker shi*.

The problem is you cant see it this raises massive concerns tbh.

it maybe understandable if she was your GF and hurt you, i could understand the outburst, but some girl you know online? this is the stalker problem right here.
 

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You had a hissy fit with a online-chick. Not the DJ way. :nono:
"Hissy fit," that is the perfect term for it. Deserving being told off doesn't even matter. He let a chick (even worse, one who doesn't merit his effort) get the best of him. I will never understand why guys would give someone else this much control over them.
 

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:rolleyes: I don't denounce sarging online, I've gotten many f*ck closes from myspace and other sites. Sarging online is easier than in real life because you can take your time to come up with words to reply (if it's email) or even in chat to some extent. The reason I don't do it anymore is because real life sarging gives me more excitement.


I don't see how that is stalking. I wasn't following anyone or giving out threats. I just told her to go screw herself. If anything, I'm just being honest.


I didn't create a new account, I already had an extra one.

The main reason why I contacted her was because I've never had a chance to use George Costanza's classic line, and I felt this was a great opportunity to use it on someone who betrayed me.
My mistake then. But c'mon, "So how often do you block people?" Is this really the personality of someone that would get (or keep) a lot of play online?

Every woman I meet who have tried the on-line thing has told me a story about a guy that sends her an email similar to this and it turns them off to meeting other guys. It happens way too frequently to make appealing to women.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't use MSN very much. So anyway, I noticed this girl was always "offline" for the past few months so I decided to check why. It turns out that I was no longer on her list. So I added her on with a different email account and then she added me and was actually online! So I talked to her pretending to be one of her other friends. Here's the convo:

Her: Hey who is this?
Me: Jacky
Her: Oh....you got a new email adress?
Me: Yeah, what have you been doing?
Her: Not much, just chilling
Me: So how often do you block people?
Her: What?
Me: How often do you delete people from your msn list even if they treat you well?
Her: .....um....i dunno...?! i'm lost ...why?
Me: The jerkstore called and they're running out of you.
Her: who is this?
Me: You blocked me when I used my real account. And why?? I never did anything bad to you. Why the heck would you just delete me for no reason?
Her: Who is this?
Me: It doesn't matter logically who this is. The premise doesn't change.
Her: ......
Me: What? Cat got your tongue?
Her: Um I don't know who you are...I'll brb
Me: Go f*ck yourself!! I don't want to talk to you. I hope the rest of your life people will treat you like sh*t because that's exactly what you deserve. Now I'm going to block you. I can't believe I was "friends" with you and I get treated like this. You are nothing more than an ATTENTION WH*RE who strives for status. And now I'll block you for being a hypocritical b*tch.

I blocked her and that was that.

hey, when i kno a girl is a lost cause, i ALWAYS do this kinda shyt (anger problems)
 

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all the ****in *****es i meet, outta every 10 girls probly 7 or 8 r *****es like this so i always get pissed off when they do that kinda thing...or ignore phone calls - its a lost cause, i kno i SHOULDNT yell at her, but i still do, and its not a good thing watsoever, i admit
 

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:rolleyes: .....

The main reason why I contacted her was because I've never had a chance to use George Costanza's classic line, and I felt this was a great opportunity to use it on someone who betrayed me.

OK, using George Costanza lines will not get you anywhere with women, or anywhere in life, other than having people laugh at you. His character was a neurotic loser, not something to emulate.
 

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I obviously wasn't trying to get her anymore. And to the contrary of what someone else wrote, I didn't have anger problems before when I talked to her, I was actually nice to her, even offering to give her a ride one time when her car was at the shop.

The problem is when someone does not reciprocate being nice. If I'm nice to someone and they block me due to low interest, I might as well ruin her mood. I had nothing to lose as she already blocked me and didn't know who I am anyway. I would have prefered to talk to her with my own email but it was blocked. I'm not trying to emulate George Costanza when I pick up girls, I only do it when I am on a tirade.
 

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Look...

I'm not saying I agree or disagree with your reaction, I'm just glad to see some guys on here who are not affraid to give a girl a piece of their mind.

Good on you mate. Next time a girl does sh!t like that again, just put her in her place.

Ignore guys like Bvbidd. They are nothing but negativity.

My only advice is next time try to control your emotions and don't take it so seriously. Women are stupid and generally quite emotionally unstable. It's nothing personal.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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