"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My mother passed!!

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Scaramouche

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Hi Eli,
I truly can't remember how I found this site,but though it goes through bad patches,I just wish it had been around when I was a Young Man...Hope you are coping with your grief,Take Care Eli.
 

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Hi Eli,
I truly can't remember how I found this site,but though it goes through bad patches,I just wish it had been around when I was a Young Man...Hope you are coping with your grief,Take Care Eli.
thank you sir i appreciate it feel free to dm me if you ever want to connect off of here:)
 
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