"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My mother passed!!

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi Eli,
I truly can't remember how I found this site,but though it goes through bad patches,I just wish it had been around when I was a Young Man...Hope you are coping with your grief,Take Care Eli.
 

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Hi Eli,
I truly can't remember how I found this site,but though it goes through bad patches,I just wish it had been around when I was a Young Man...Hope you are coping with your grief,Take Care Eli.
thank you sir i appreciate it feel free to dm me if you ever want to connect off of here:)
 
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