"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My most AFC text. Help lol!

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No way was this "the most AFC convo ever." AFCs say way more nice guy chump things than this. Even if some things were probably better left unsaid, depending on the vibe you had with the girl her feeling embarrassed could even work to your advantage (not saying this is definitely the case, but it can't be ruled out). I wouldn't be regretting this convo as much as you're regretting it, even if it's true that you could have done better.

Still, for all that, I agree with muscleman. Texting/online is best used to arrange meetups, not just talking crap (until you've fkked her, at which point the rules change a bit).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Um...some of you guys missed the boat. And it is Hong Kong now.

Analyzing the "technical" aspect of the texting back and forth is irrelevant. You guys are missing the bigger picture. She was not interested from the beginning. It is painfully obvious from the texts that the OP misread being drunk as interest and "hitting it off".

Come on guys.
 
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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Um...some of you guys missed the boat. And it is Hong Kong now.

Analyzing the "technical" aspect of the texting back and forth is irrelevant. You guys are missing the bigger picture. She was not interested from the beginning. It is painfully obvious from the texts that the OP misread being drunk as interest and "hitting it off".

Come on guys.
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Holy crap I am laughing so damn hard right now. No need for further ANALysis...
 
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haha you guys are a crack up.
Glad my most AFC text isn't all bad :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The_Crack said:
haha you guys are a crack up.
Glad my most AFC text isn't all bad :p
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You're texting game was not solid, but it wasn't the problem. Regret over the other night was written all over her responses. She just wanted to forget all about it from the sounds of it.

One part genuine regret, one part anti-slut defense, 100 parts a total waste of time. Forget about her.
 
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TillTheEndOfTime said:
You're texting game was not solid, but it wasn't the problem. Regret over the other night was written all over her responses. She just wanted to forget all about it from the sounds of it.

One part genuine regret, one part anti-slut defense, 100 parts a total waste of time. Forget about her.
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yeah i figured as much. All good, thanks for the help :)
i'm still going to have another crack at it when i see her again though.. ruthless
 
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