My moms's mother (my grandma) has 3 daughters and excluded 2 of them from testimonial

[sosousage]

(including my mom)

what would be your reactions?
1. my mom invited my grandma to a lot of grill parties, holidays, etc
2. she didnt give any reasons why, just saying that 'cuz shes poor in life' (mind you she mentioned lot of bs reasons before like "but u moved!" etc just typical nonsense a girl says when u confront her about somehting)

now i dont really care about the money but i feel like my mother was betrayed by yet another person


in case my mother (just example) wanted to give all the money to me, instead of sharing it with my sister, then unless I would be homeless, or unless I would HATE my sister, then i wouldnt take all money, i would tell her to split 50/50, its fair right?

if this happened to me i'd just go no contact permanent

 

[backseatjuan]

A) exlude gourself frm any of your grandma’s decisions to ncluding affecting verbally and with actions any of her decisions.

B) roll with it.

Realize that you are cvnt that cane out of related cvnt of your grand ma. So you are nothing. Whatever she wants man. You? Fck off.

I too had my grand ma leave a lot of property to my uncke who was a heroin junkyard e from age 18, even tho my mother ther his older sister supported her from USA.


I ended uo fcking his aids wife. Edit.... formym mom. He died my mom got the property... i got no aids. Ghoest dck

Be a good grand son and roll with it.

She has is the boss......, you cant change sht.

 

[Alvafe]

simple, do what most people do with family drama, nothing, or stand your ground and stop going or inviting the grandma.

serious you NA people are strange, most kick your kids out when they make 18, expect then to live alone in another place, don't have any issues about leaving your birth city if that means find a job, but still keep saying family is important? like why? to have a place to spend thanksgiving?

understand this family is just some people you are forced to deal with when children, because your parents for some reason like then, after you growth up, you keep the good people toss the bad ones,

want one single example? I have issues with a uncle and one cousin, the cousin is a ****ing idiot parasitic imbecile, who think is smart, he is annoying, and I tell everyone in the family dumb people annoy me, and he annoys me, so I just keep contact to the minimum with him the uncle same thing, but he tried to hit my father, serious I just told everyone, because before he could do anything they stoped him, saying really, he really did belive he would live this place alive if he even get close to my father? good about this one was I didn't see him again after, willing to see how long till he shows up.

there is nothing to do, keep then in check by ignoring then and if they try to be funny crash tehn down fast, easy too since they are too dumb to try to get thenselfs out

that is of course a example what I had to deal with, everyone have famly problem, but again, things are only important waht you give importance, bad people or people who don't add anything are tossed in the corner and forgotten, people like this only drag you down so why waste time on then?

 

[backseatjuan]

nothing, or stand your ground and stop going or inviting the grandma.

NO



Because she is your family.... beside her who you have???

Me?

She is yourclose family.

 

[backseatjuan]

YOU can ake tour grand mothef to some good stuff, if I was you in florida id take her coral castle a d rocket net lab.

She dont ha e much left.

Put your dumb asx on ber place.

@Spaz wymtf??

 

[John9999]

Omg. Your original poster sounds like a freaking woman with this post. Dude this is supposed to be the Don Juan forum.

 

[sosousage]

Omg. Your original poster sounds like a freaking woman with this post. Dude this is supposed to be the Don Juan forum.

also, she clearly cucked my dead grandfather who wanted to split the testimonial equally between 3 daughters

 

[Spaz]

It's her money or assets, it's her business to whom she gives it to.

Just let ur mom sort it out, women knows women and mother's definitely know how to twist their daughter's around their little palms when it suits them.

And daughters are equally good at discarding mothers when it suits them too.

Its the feminine imperative playing out.

Meanwhile you just need to earn good money to not even be bothered by the whole drama.

 

[sosousage]

It's her money or assets, it's her business to whom she gives it to.

Just let ur mom sort it out, women knows women and mother's definitely know how to twist their daughter's around their little palms when it suits them.

And daughters are equally good at discarding mothers when it suits them too.

Its the feminine imperative playing out.

Meanwhile you just need to earn good money to not even be bothered by the whole drama.

TRUE. need to go hard next on grandma