"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My moms friend

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I've been having sex with my moms best friend for about a bit more than a month. I have known her for 3 years, and she has always flirted with me alot, she said she was just trying to bug me. She was married and few weeks after she got divorce she made a move on me, and we have been ****ing 2 or three times a week since. She is alot younger than my mom, she's only 30. I think my mom knows or at least suspects that something is going on, and I didn't think she had a problem with it until about a week ago. I still live at home with my parents, and my moms friend was over. She was talking about how boring her night was going to be, she said she was going to watch movies alone. So I invited myself over, and about an hour later when I was in her car on the way over, she told me before we left my mom asked her not to let me come over(she knew I would be spending the night there because I don't have a vehichle, it was too late to take a bus and her house is too far to take a taxi). I hadn't really thought much about how my mom would feel about it, and now I feel weird about it. I really like her, and she likes me too, she told me that she thinks about me all the time. I don't know what I should do.
Do you think I should stop having sex with her or maybe talk to my mom about it? Or keep it a secret from my mom and not let things get too serious?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Captain Popular

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Dude dont reveal it now, might as well ride it out b/c it's too late now......if u decide to cut her off then still dont tell your mom, it will hurt her feelings and might ruin a friendship....so good luck
 

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You are 20, she is 30... how serious do you actually think it could get? Don't answer that! :) She just got divorced...

So keep it quiet from mom and just have some fun. Don't get attached to her.
 

qweretyuiopas

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Have fun.
Dont get attached.
Dont tell mom.
and last but not least...
Take nudie pics and email them to me if shes hot ;)
lmao
 

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Don't Worry Be Happy

First and formost, keep you mouth shut.
Second, have fun
Third end it because it's probably not going to be a serious relationship.

I had a friend who went thru the same situation. He said his mom suspected something but never underestimate the power of denial.

good luck
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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