"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My mom went OFF on me LMAO

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So... I'm 20, maybe I've been a little tooo vocalizing with my new redpill mindset and beliefs at home... I knew it was a bad idea, but just can't help sharing when you start learning about a new world hahaha. Also recently broke up with my girl of 3 years.

She's a pretty Christian Eastern European so it was predictable.

Started going off on me about getting diseases and ****, and that NOBODY is gonna marry me when I'm in my 30's because of all the girls I've been with. (LOL). How I'm going down the wrong path in life and letting ego and the 'devil' control me. She says she doesn't even recognize me anymore (This is a great sign of me leaving my pathetic AFC mentality). You NEED to respect women blablabla (Not like I'm fking treating them like dirt LOL wtf..). Says I'm reading all the wrong books. Told her I'm proud of the decisions I've made lately, and she says that pride is the "worst" thing to have.. All horse****, didn't let it touch my frame though.

One good thing did come out of this, it solidied the fact that I need to get out of this house, so I've given myself a 2 month deadline and I'm out! Things are changing for the better.

Anyone else go through this type of situation before?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So... I'm 20, maybe I've been a little tooo vocalizing with my new redpill mindset and beliefs at home... I knew it was a bad idea, but just can't help sharing when you start learning about a new world hahaha. Also recently broke up with my girl of 3 years.

She's a pretty Christian Eastern European so it was predictable.

Started going off on me about getting diseases and ****, and that NOBODY is gonna marry me when I'm in my 30's because of all the girls I've been with. (LOL). How I'm going down the wrong path in life and letting ego and the 'devil' control me. She says she doesn't even recognize me anymore (This is a great sign of me leaving my pathetic AFC mentality). You NEED to respect women blablabla (Not like I'm fking treating them like dirt LOL wtf..). Says I'm reading all the wrong books. All horse****, didn't even let it touch my frame though.

One good thing did come out of this, it solidied the fact that I need to get out of this house, so I've given myself a 2 month deadline and I'm out! Things are changing for the better.

Anyone else go through this type of situation before?
oh nvm i did read again. well spin plates
 

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So... I'm 20, maybe I've been a little tooo vocalizing with my new redpill mindset and beliefs at home... I knew it was a bad idea, but just can't help sharing when you start learning about a new world hahaha. Also recently broke up with my girl of 3 years.

She's a pretty Christian Eastern European so it was predictable.

Started going off on me about getting diseases and ****, and that NOBODY is gonna marry me when I'm in my 30's because of all the girls I've been with. (LOL). How I'm going down the wrong path in life and letting ego and the 'devil' control me. She says she doesn't even recognize me anymore (This is a great sign of me leaving my pathetic AFC mentality). You NEED to respect women blablabla (Not like I'm fking treating them like dirt LOL wtf..). Says I'm reading all the wrong books. Told her I'm proud of the decisions I've made lately, and she says that pride is the "worst" thing to have.. All horse****, didn't let it touch my frame though.

One good thing did come out of this, it solidied the fact that I need to get out of this house, so I've given myself a 2 month deadline and I'm out! Things are changing for the better.

Anyone else go through this type of situation before?
My mom thinks I treat women like dirt lol

She adores me and is unable to hide it
 

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I smell a troll nonsense :cool: This story is just ridiculous lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So... I'm 20, maybe I've been a little tooo vocalizing with my new redpill mindset and beliefs at home... I knew it was a bad idea, but just can't help sharing when you start learning about a new world hahaha. Also recently broke up with my girl of 3 years.

She's a pretty Christian Eastern European so it was predictable.

Started going off on me about getting diseases and ****, and that NOBODY is gonna marry me when I'm in my 30's because of all the girls I've been with. (LOL). How I'm going down the wrong path in life and letting ego and the 'devil' control me. She says she doesn't even recognize me anymore (This is a great sign of me leaving my pathetic AFC mentality). You NEED to respect women blablabla (Not like I'm fking treating them like dirt LOL wtf..). Says I'm reading all the wrong books. Told her I'm proud of the decisions I've made lately, and she says that pride is the "worst" thing to have.. All horse****, didn't let it touch my frame though.

One good thing did come out of this, it solidied the fact that I need to get out of this house, so I've given myself a 2 month deadline and I'm out! Things are changing for the better.

Anyone else go through this type of situation before?
Haha my mom would be the type of mom to do this as well.

That's why I hookup with my best looking plate at my house, and my other 2 I hookup at their house.

Not really trying to have a conversation, with my mother of all people, about how many girls I'm seeing. That's just awkward lol.

Timeline for me to get out of the house is early next year after I save up some decent money from my new job.

Keep making moves my friend!
 

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I smell a troll nonsense :cool: This story is just ridiculous lol
It happened LOL. I need to learn to keep my mouth shut about stuff I learn and do, especially around my family. It's a problem I've had.
 

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It happened LOL. I need to learn to keep my mouth shut about stuff I learn and do, especially around my family. It's a problem I've had.
Also it's not like I'm saying "I'm f'ing all these bitches blablabla". I've just said, "no more relationships for me! I've seen 3 girls this week! Never felt better, no marriage for me for YEARS :)". Which made her go off hahaha.
 

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Yeah, several times, but not for red pill stuff. My family actually couldn’t give any less of a crap haha. And they don’t really happen anymore. It’s like they respect me more now, which is expectable considering that others do too.


I think that in the case of your mother, she’s getting jealous. Maybe some underlying Oedipus Complex type **** lol
 

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Family will sometimes be jealous and try to interfere. As a man, you have to shut that chit out and do what makes you happy

I'm not trying to make other people happy.. And myself unhappy.. Therefore I could give a rat azz one anyone thinks
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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