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My mom is stalking girls for me....

Mxrider01

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Hey guys I have a wierd situation and though it would make for a few good laughs...

I was recently at my parents house doing some outside work for them and just out of the corner of my eye I catch a girl across the street looking over at me. From across the street she seemed attaractive, so I waved and smiled, she quickly jumped into her car and drove off.

Since I am not at my parents very often, I nonchalantley asked my mother who lived there. She said it was a husband and wife that had lived there for some time and they have two duaghters that are in school. That was the end of the short converstion with my mother. Or so I thought....

I went home that evening and recieved a call from my mother telling me that she had gone across the street and asked about their daughter and gotten the younger girls phone #, email and apt address for me from the other mother. I kinda laughed thinking she was joking, but she was dead serious and proceeds to tell me that "since I am single and dating is so awkward anyways, she was just trying to help." At the time I was kinda shocked that my mother is stalking neighborhood girls on my behalf so I basically told my mom that I never met her and that it mght be a little creepy if I contacted her since she doesn't know who I am. She then tells me that she gave them my business card and my information incase she wanted to contact me. I got off the phone and then the emails start from my mom with all of the contact info. for this girl insisting that I contact her in some way.

I kinda had a good laugh about this...

I'm curious what would you guys do in this situation??? Contact her? Leave it alone? What should I tell my mom?

Thanks for any input in advance...
 

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I'd let it go.....for now.
 

joekerr31

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send her an email that says:

"hi there. my mom talked to your mom and told her that i liked you. your mom gave my mom your contact info and this is how i got your email address. i was wondering if you would like to go out sometime? If you would like to go out let your mom know and she will tell my mom who will then tell me. we could go to the ice cream parlor and share a napolean ice cream cone. please go out with me otherwise my mom is going to ground me."

now that sh*t would be damn funny. if she turns you down then get your mom to harass her mother to get her to say yes. then when she is eventually forced to go out with you reveal that you were just being a d*ck cuz you thought it was funny and that you actually aren't a mammas boy.
 

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actually i've struck out in front of my mom before (how many guys on here can say that!)

i'll tell ya this much, if you can strike out in front of your mom, you'll be a whole different man afterwards.

striking out is bad enough, but in front of your mom?!! now that's like getting hoofed in the nuts by an NFL lineman.

but youll be stronger for it afterwards. the more 'awkward' situations you put yourself in, the more you accustom yourself to the dangers of battle, the less you will fear them in the future.

thats why in life you should always put yourself in situations you are afraid of, becuase only in experiecing them can you overcome your fear of them.
 

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You're not the only one this has happened to.... Yup, my mother did something like this as well.

The entire family (parents, brother & me) went out for dinner. I never sarge when I'm out with my parents. They like to shove things in my face and are incredibly negative about EVERYTHING. I'm not fond of my family, especially my mother. Me and my brother are cool though.

So the waitress comes up and offers to refill our drinks. My mother says "This is my son Des, and he's single! What's your name? (too dumb to look at the name tag)." I couldn't believe she was trying to hook me up! I looked at her and asked, "What the hell are you doing?"

"I'm just trying to help!"

"I don't need your help picking up women."

She continued the charade throughout dinner. In case you're wondering, there was no number close.

Not sure what your relationship is like with your mother, but IMO she shouldn't be giving you unwanted help. It shows that she has a lack of respect for you as an adult, and an individual.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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All you can do is laugh it off. And:

#1 - she ran away when you waved = probably not interested

#2 - you live next door anyway, why do you need a phone number?
 

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joeker I may take you up on your email suggestion and see what happens..that may be good for a laugh :)
 

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I don't think I'd contact her at all (unless she contacts you). It just looks like such a desperate act to make an unsolicted call to a chick who has no idea who you are, and given that your Mom was the initiator.
 
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