"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My mom is a DJ?

SamePendo

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Lol.

Do you guys realize that "Don Juan" stands for "Mr. John"?

Yall guys moms are Don Juans lmao.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Babnik said:
I was wondering why is that many guys like people here NEED this forum and this guide?

I was just talking to my mom, just completely honestly about all this stuff, and SERIOUSLY my mom pretty much gave same advice anyone would give anyone here...

Besides that, with a simple conversation my own mom just found that exact flaw that kept me away from many girls and I discussed it here.

Does anyone find this odd? You think most moms would give a DJ-type advice without the whole "oh, be nice and sensetive" crap?

There are female players just like how there are male players you never knew that.I'm sure your mom was a female pimp back in the day.Game is not limited to men.
 

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SamePendo said:
Lol.

Do you guys realize that "Don Juan" stands for "Mr. John"?

Yall guys moms are Don Juans lmao.

Thank You.Just like how there are male pimps there are female pimps.
 

Babnik

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General said:
There are female players just like how there are male players you never knew that.I'm sure your mom was a female pimp back in the day.Game is not limited to men.
My mom got married at 18, and had sex with only 2 men in her life.
No pimping, just honesty about how things really are.
 

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Originally posted by Fallen33
My mom lets me learn these things on my own.
So true...

I never see mine(like actually) and we dont communicate very well so the most advice my parents have ever given me is how to do Calculus homework...

I actually talked to my girl about this as soon as i read the post and she told me that her parents gave her the "talk", and most of her friends(guys included) had their parents give them social advice...It really hurt when I heard about how close she is to her parents, contrasting with how i almost never see mine...

Ahh well, play the hand you're delt eh?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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