"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My mom is a DJ?

SamePendo

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Lol.

Do you guys realize that "Don Juan" stands for "Mr. John"?

Yall guys moms are Don Juans lmao.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Babnik said:
I was wondering why is that many guys like people here NEED this forum and this guide?

I was just talking to my mom, just completely honestly about all this stuff, and SERIOUSLY my mom pretty much gave same advice anyone would give anyone here...

Besides that, with a simple conversation my own mom just found that exact flaw that kept me away from many girls and I discussed it here.

Does anyone find this odd? You think most moms would give a DJ-type advice without the whole "oh, be nice and sensetive" crap?

There are female players just like how there are male players you never knew that.I'm sure your mom was a female pimp back in the day.Game is not limited to men.
 

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SamePendo said:
Lol.

Do you guys realize that "Don Juan" stands for "Mr. John"?

Yall guys moms are Don Juans lmao.

Thank You.Just like how there are male pimps there are female pimps.
 

Babnik

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General said:
There are female players just like how there are male players you never knew that.I'm sure your mom was a female pimp back in the day.Game is not limited to men.
My mom got married at 18, and had sex with only 2 men in her life.
No pimping, just honesty about how things really are.
 

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Originally posted by Fallen33
My mom lets me learn these things on my own.
So true...

I never see mine(like actually) and we dont communicate very well so the most advice my parents have ever given me is how to do Calculus homework...

I actually talked to my girl about this as soon as i read the post and she told me that her parents gave her the "talk", and most of her friends(guys included) had their parents give them social advice...It really hurt when I heard about how close she is to her parents, contrasting with how i almost never see mine...

Ahh well, play the hand you're delt eh?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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