My Mission To Number Close All Girls I'm Interested In

[jeffthechef]

Disclaimer*This may help some of you or piss some of you off.

Well, I've been on this site for quite a while and my ideas of Alpha/Dj have been constantly morphing. SOO...I thought i would keep a journal here. Hopefully, this provides some insight for others while allowing me to discover what works and doesn't work for my own game.
I probably won't be updating daily due to SATs and AP's...but the last month of the school year is when i hope to pile up the numbers i don't have before summer.

A little HONEST background information...
I don't have to worry about looks for the most part, but i'm not popular because i spend most of my time studying and only socialize when it's convenient. Most people know who i am but aren't close. Girls always give me the double look and try to initiate, if they aren't concerned about the popularity issue. BUT, all the girls that aren't in my grade, and thus don't know my social status, are very direct. I will admit that i have failed to live up to the standards i have set up. I had a brief period of success then lost it. I have no trouble flirting/kino/game in general, BUT I CAN'T NUMBER CLOSE TO SAVE MY ASS. That's the number one thing i hope to improve. 16yr old junior.

Note*My ratings are based on how many guys i know have approached them already. And ratings others have given them so as to be objective.

Currently have my eye on 4 girls. The first one i have known for a while. The other three i have just noticed so not much has started yet.

A 9/9.5= Sophomore, popular, fun to be around. My friend "asked her out" after an outing or two and got rejected. No point reading body language with her. Good eye contact. Smiles/laughs. Usually initiates kino before me. But likes to cross arms and legs. I swear she does this to confuse me.

B 8.5= Freshman, haven't talked to. Eye contact.

C 8= Freshman, haven't talked to. Eye contact.

D 7.5= Junior, same thing.

I know many of you, including me before, hate using body language to read people. But perhaps a pattern may arise. Plus, there's not much else i can talk about on here, i think. So i'll give you guys my interactions with them.
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A: We were sitting next to each other in one of my classes. First she was sitting with her bag in her lap and her arms crossed around her bag. Talk talk. We laughed as we argued over two television shows. My friend then began to ****block. She puts her stuff down, finally. Then, she tells me about how her finger was sore. OK, at the time, i thought she was serious and i just told her to massage it. THEN, when i got home. IT HIT ME. Perhaps she was giving me a chance to kino. Who knows, i'm a dumbass though. She hits me on the arm a couple times as i joke around. She hasn't been texting or ditching during our class together for 2 weeks.
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Expect to number close her tomorrow. Number close B next week. And C the week after that. The only reason why i'm spacing it out is, they are all in the same class with me. D i only see when i happen to pass her by.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

I didnt read your whole post because i have no time now. But , judging from your title , you set weak goals. You should aim higher. Aim for f close.

#close doesnt mean sh1t.

 

[jeffthechef]

I didnt read your whole post because i have no time now. But , judging from your title , you set weak goals. You should aim higher. Aim for f close.

#close doesnt mean sh1t.

True in some ways. The thing is, i'm not looking to f close all the time. If i do decide to, i usually have no problem AFTER i have the number.

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I'm strangely alraedy losing interest in this journal..heh..well i'll update later after school

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

I didnt read your whole post because i have no time now. But , judging from your title , you set weak goals. You should aim higher. Aim for f close.

#close doesnt mean sh1t.

I agree that these days number closes mean next to nothing and that girls give them out like it's christmas, but for some people they need to take things one step at a time in order to feel comfortable and not get in over their head. Based on certain individuals' experience levels, setting F-closing every girl as their baseline goal may not be realistic, and so it would be better to set yourself up for success and realistic outcomes rather than shooting for the moon.

That being said, it's easy to get good at number closing or kiss closing and then being stuck and not being able to proceed further, but that is what this work is all about. Aiming too high is not productive, but neither is aiming too low and making things too easy for yourself. Cater your goals to your specific skill and confidence level, and go up from there. Everyone is different and has certain holes in their game they must work on.