guywhoneedshelp
Master Don Juan
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The main focus is on how you number close. You need to build enough rapport, taking control of the situation, "put my number in your phone", call them right on the spot, when they check it, write your name in it and maybe the place you 2 met so she will remember, and then give them a reason to call you. ("Call me so I can show you; insert name of restaurant, fun place to go to that you talked about". )
Don't call girls you just met on the streets. Seriously. It doesn't work. Let them call/text you. Hand them a business card, or just grab their phone and put your number in. Girls are so used to being chased, and you want them to chase you! Build enough rapport so they will call you! "Let's go to that haunted house before Halloween is over!" Then when you hang out, be prepared. Have cool things to talk about, cool places to go, clean car, full tank of gas, cash, clean house, etc.
I've looked back at most of my successes and some of them were very hot chicks. And each one of them either texted, called, sent me an instant message, myspace or facebook'd ME. Then after we got to know eachother and had hung out a few times, then I'd start calling, texting, "lets hang out" etc.
Also, I look back on most of my successes and I spent quite some time talking to them on AIM which built comfort and rapport. While I'm at work I talk to girls on AIM. For now on, I'm bringing it up in a conversation, "you use aim or anything like that." "yea" then just have them write the damn screen name in your phones notepad.
I started rethinking this because my wing recently nailed a girl within a week of meeting her, and when he met her in the mall SHE CALLED HIM later that night in which they hung out, kissed closed, and then days later Fclosed. I started thinking back to most of the girls I got with and realized that you're better off charming them in such a way that they will want to call you.
Discuss...
Don't call girls you just met on the streets. Seriously. It doesn't work. Let them call/text you. Hand them a business card, or just grab their phone and put your number in. Girls are so used to being chased, and you want them to chase you! Build enough rapport so they will call you! "Let's go to that haunted house before Halloween is over!" Then when you hang out, be prepared. Have cool things to talk about, cool places to go, clean car, full tank of gas, cash, clean house, etc.
I've looked back at most of my successes and some of them were very hot chicks. And each one of them either texted, called, sent me an instant message, myspace or facebook'd ME. Then after we got to know eachother and had hung out a few times, then I'd start calling, texting, "lets hang out" etc.
Also, I look back on most of my successes and I spent quite some time talking to them on AIM which built comfort and rapport. While I'm at work I talk to girls on AIM. For now on, I'm bringing it up in a conversation, "you use aim or anything like that." "yea" then just have them write the damn screen name in your phones notepad.
I started rethinking this because my wing recently nailed a girl within a week of meeting her, and when he met her in the mall SHE CALLED HIM later that night in which they hung out, kissed closed, and then days later Fclosed. I started thinking back to most of the girls I got with and realized that you're better off charming them in such a way that they will want to call you.
Discuss...