"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My memorial day pursuit

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All right, this HB8 has a boyfriend but is still in love with me . She's my ex. We have a ton of kino all the time and when her boyfriend and I are ever together she give me all the attention. Her boyfriend turned in the a "nice guy" when they started dating but is cheating on her anyway, so i figured what the hell. They have only been going out for a month.


I'm trying to get with her monday...
I'm gonna call her tomorrow and tell her when I'm picking her up. (I all ready told her keep Monday free)
- only thing I'm not really sure what time to pick her up, I have a house completely empty for a couple weeks, and I'm not sure if I should try to get her to stay.
+ I want to have the ability to drink and not have drive her home till the next day.
I'm all so sure that she receptive to everything I do, so I'm going to see how far I can take it.
Any suggestions? I think I have everything covered.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sounds like you are doing everything correct, just do what you want,she'll follow.

PS:you have a journal for a reason!Don't open new threads.
 

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Sorry about that. It never occurred to me. :(
 
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