MY LTR wants more love from me

"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Remulak

Senior Don Juan

Nov 15, 2006

Dayr0n said:
She says that Im her life AND I know it, that she puts me in front of everything and I don’t do the same that I don’t love her the same way.
I love her but IN my way that’s what i told her, also I said to her well maybe you need someone that could express his feelings better with you I cant do nothing else that’s the way I am she told me no I want you But all I want is a little more from you.

I hate this **** anybody been there...

Most likely a sh!t test, try giving her a little more but be very careful with this. If you start acting all lovey dovey she'll kick your ass to the curb.

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.