"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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my ltr its goin to make my fantasy come true..

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my gf is 17 we been together for 6 months. She said that im the man of her life that she would do anything for me she even toldme that she would give her life for me.
But I always play around saying that i never been with 2 girls at the same time,she always said no that if im crazy thats nasty whatever. I told her i want her to be the one that makes my fantasy comes true ;).

Well yesterday we had a nasty fight she is trying to get back with me she tells me i mean everything to her, so she told me Dayr0n i want to make u very happy if u want i do ur fantasy, but it has to be with some one i dont know. I told her nah i dont want to use a slut for this. So she told me she has a friend that she knows since highschool that the girl is bi. She would do it but that they wont touch. Man these is sweet because the girl is hot hot 2 like my gf, but im also thinking if she really loves me as much as she say she does would that make her feel bad seeing me banging another girl?????

what do u guys think if u have any question let me know.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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no offence but are you sure you're not like 12?

she really loves me as much as she say she does would that make her feel bad seeing me banging another girl
... you think? I swear you must be 12.
 

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cmon be serious what do u think...
She used to say that i would look at her bad that i wont take her seriously and ofcourse i said no but i know i would. She also told me that she wasnt gonna be able to see me doing that but i told her that she was gonna be there too and that it was only one time ???
 

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A) You don't do threesomes with your girlfriend or very soon, she won't be your girlfriend. Very few exceptions.

B) It sounds like you're emotionally blackmailing her into doing somthing that she really doesn't want any part of, which will in turn accelerate my first point plus make her ashamed of herself and resentful of you at the same time.

C) If they're not going to play with each other, what's the point? :D
 

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i think she agree because since she knows im going to cuba in 10 days and we are gonna be apart for a week so i wont cheat on her or something. I told her playing around if u do that i wont stop thinink about u when im in there some crap like that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think you should do what you want. Thats about all I can get out of this thread.
 

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S1NN3R said:
A) You don't do threesomes with your girlfriend or very soon, she won't be your girlfriend. Very few exceptions.

B) It sounds like you're emotionally blackmailing her into doing somthing that she really doesn't want any part of, which will in turn accelerate my first point plus make her ashamed of herself and resentful of you at the same time.

C) If they're not going to play with each other, what's the point? :D
I would agree with all those points.

Would you be willing to fulfill her fantasy if it meant a threesome with another guy? And how would you feel watching a male friend of yours banging your girlfriend?

If you are actually ok with that idea, a monogamous relationship is probably not for you and you'd be more suited to a fvck buddy or open relationship.
 

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Jariel said:
I would agree with all those points.

Would you be willing to fulfill her fantasy if it meant a threesome with another guy? And how would you feel watching a male friend of yours banging your girlfriend?

If you are actually ok with that idea, a monogamous relationship is probably not for you and you'd be more suited to a fvck buddy or open relationship.
Are you feeling guilty yet, Dayr0n? :down:

Dayr0n: :up: The last thing you need to worry is about a LTR with her, this is great, go with it, and listen to advice from posters who advice you on how to get the threesome to rock.
 

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I don't have much experience in this area but she sounds like an obessive type of girl. If you get the threesome than she might become more obessive and go all crazy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SamePendo said:
Are you feeling guilty yet, Dayr0n? :down:

Dayr0n: :up: The last thing you need to worry is about a LTR with her, this is great, go with it, and listen to advice from posters who advice you on how to get the threesome to rock.

She's obviously just doing it to keep this guy and regain his affection. It's kinda like a "nice guy" who tries to win back his ex- with presents and stuff, but in that case we would all be saying the girl is a b1tch and he should leave her.

Things like this can mess up women for a lifetime in the same way b1tches can mess up a guy. All I'm saying is, if she's not comfortable with it, go out and find someone more suited to it. You're a man right, you have other options?
 

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she told me she was gonna do it for me, that she was gonna take it like a woman just for me because she wanted to make me happy.
Also that just picturing that it makes her want to cry, but that she could focus on me and that she is doing it to make my fantasy come true.

I told her that its ok that we dont have to do it.
 

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:
Shes not gonna do it anyway, girls are great at talking **** at the end of fights.

Yeah we were gonna do it on Wednesday she call her bi friend in front of me they set a date and everything. Her bi friend was like oh man i will feel so weird been there with u but i will do it for u and for him man i was like yes but then i started to think, u know.
 

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Dayr0n said:
Yeah we were gonna do it on Wednesday she call her bi friend in front of me they set a date and everything. Her bi friend was like oh man i will feel so weird been there with u but i will do it for u and for him man i was like yes but then i started to think, u know.
WTF! you have the chance to do 2 hot girls

DO IT

and if she gets annoyed and wants to leave..who cares? you just had a threesome and now your a free man to go get some more p**sy!
 

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Jariel said:
She's obviously just doing it to keep this guy and regain his affection. It's kinda like a "nice guy" who tries to win back his ex- with presents and stuff, but in that case we would all be saying the girl is a b1tch and he should leave her.

Things like this can mess up women for a lifetime in the same way b1tches can mess up a guy. All I'm saying is, if she's not comfortable with it, go out and find someone more suited to it.
In the same topic, a warning to all fellow DJs! WATCH OUT! Women are ZOMBIES they are controlled by some alien force and do not take decisions by their own. Although you should be more worried about them divorcing you :whistle:.


Jariel said:
You're a man right, you have other options?
Yes Dayr0n! Feel guilty for going with this!


Dayr0n said:
I told her that its ok that we dont have to do it.
Noooo!! Another one lost!!! But, you were so young!

Dayr0n said:
Her bi friend was like oh man i will feel so weird been there with u but i will do it for u and for him
As I said earlier, women are zombies, including her friend... poor thing, she will sacrifice herself to the gods just for you!

Right :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Shes not enough for your mind. Get rid of her when this is all said and done.
 

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Dayr0n said:
my gf is 17 we been together for 6 months. She said that im the man of her life that she would do anything for me she even toldme that she would give her life for me.
But I always play around saying that i never been with 2 girls at the same time,she always said no that if im crazy thats nasty whatever. I told her i want her to be the one that makes my fantasy comes true ;).

Well yesterday we had a nasty fight she is trying to get back with me she tells me i mean everything to her, so she told me Dayr0n i want to make u very happy if u want i do ur fantasy, but it has to be with some one i dont know. I told her nah i dont want to use a slut for this. So she told me she has a friend that she knows since highschool that the girl is bi. She would do it but that they wont touch. Man these is sweet because the girl is hot hot 2 like my gf, but im also thinking if she really loves me as much as she say she does would that make her feel bad seeing me banging another girl?????

what do u guys think if u have any question let me know.
Obviously that's going to make her feel bad. She's only agreeing to it because you pressured her into it, and believe you me, when it's done, she's going to be acting differently (in a bad way) than she did beforehand, and it will last until you two break up. In the end, it comes down to if you want the relationship to stay as it is, or if you don't care.
 

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Dayr0n said:
Yeah we were gonna do it on Wednesday she call her bi friend in front of me they set a date and everything. Her bi friend was like oh man i will feel so weird been there with u but i will do it for u and for him man i was like yes but then i started to think, u know.
Look if you want this and it happens then its cool, but I really think that "something will come up" and that will be that then.
 
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