MY loss of IL

[sonick182]

Has anybody found this to happen?

You find this girl, you think she's pretty good lookin and whatnot, then you start DJing her...

After awhile her IL is up, but then once you have her where you want her, YOUR IL suddenly drops?

I found this happen to me twice... right now is the second time... So this girl, she's decent, about a 6.5-7, i thought she was kinda cute (nice rack!), so I started kinda DJing her...
Then she had a thing for me, but I was caugh up with my own thing, i didnt ask her out... later on i find out she got into a relationship. It lasted a month... she breaks up with the guy, and still has a thing for me, starts talkin to me on MSN, asking me to 'hang out'...

But now, though, i just don't have to motivation to call her up or to take her up on the offer... like i still wouldn't mind gettin some action from her , but i wouldn't mind if i didn't either...

Maybe i set my initial standards to low haha...

Anybody have this happen too? Where they lose IL in a girl they DJ?

 

[Broadband]

I hear ya. The thrill of the hunt. Once you've got her that thrill is lessened. See I lose interest right after the infatuation wears off. That averages out to be 2-3 months max.

 

[Hot Ice]

Hey sonick182.
I must share something because I feel you here bro.

This is one reason I haven't ever been in a real LTR.
My intrest drops waaaaaayy down after the challenge of getting her (or hers ) has gone.

This might be also the thing that is with you too.


Another thing is that when you get better as a DJ and develope your persona and start really like yourself and your life, women suddenly become unimportant. They are just there to spice your life a little bit...


For a DJ who have achieved this, maybe the best way to deal this is propably to find good looking hottie enough to fulfill ones manly lust. Enough hot that there is no need to look at other chicks. And get the ***** guaranteed every time.
If you feel your standards are too low, it's time to rise them up a little. They are ok as long as you can get chicks that really attract you. I you can't, just try harder.

 

[Gold Heart]

Is it the interest level low or are you in the I'm-lazy-and-I-don't-feel-like-calling-or-doing-the-work?

Maybe you just realized that you can get better chicks than her. I've been in your situation before. To tell the truth, it feels good to be the one losing interest this time instead of the other way around.

 

[sonick182]

lol goldheart, they're differnt things? I'm feelin like the latter, the im too lazy one... but then again, when i think about it, i think its a problem with interest level... if i was interested, i wouldn't hesitate to call her or talk to her... right?