Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
B-Man, you are a dichotomy.Babnik said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
My Looks Turned Me Into An Afc
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why? Girls I laid were happy and I was not ******* to them.Francisco d'Anconia said:
I flirted with them. When I was a butthole I did it in such a manner that they understood I did not mean it!
Like, I would say something like above.."Pick that stuff up or someone may trip and fall!" but I did it in a ****y manner and I SMILED and they smiled back because they knew I was FLIRTING.
It made them HAPPY.
I had conversations about that with igrls and they say "Oh, I know you didn't mean it and neither did I when I was being a b*tch to you and you know it!"
Its a game, its not SERIOUS. If I would say what I said above in a serious commanding manner - them girls would be scared.
El Febreezey Da Beez said:
Thanks for contributing to the site.... I would love to see all your threads and all your posts. I am sure you are a man of great expertise in the woman department. I am sure you get so much pvssy...
Let me check your threads and posts and I will private message you if I need your advice on anything.
...you are one of those nice guys learning to dominant. See, you can possible be nice when you are from third world slavic country where people starve and have horrible lives... you described what you used to be like. It does not pertain to me whatsoever.DevanE said:Look here man, your acting like a women thats a simple fact. The way you type and WHAT you type tell me a lot about you and how you probably act. Yeaa your good looking soo fukin what...? Im good looking too, better yet I bet you Im 10X's better looking then you. What your failing to realize is that all the media brain-washing has polluted your system and repressed your sexuality THAT is the main problem with guys nowadays and your a shining example. I myself was like that, shy, insecure and just overall nice, afcourse I reawakened and did a complete 360.
But your main problem is that you don't want to accept the fact of how this world works, especially the world of women. You talk about how you don't want to make them feel like sh** etc etc, tell me one time in my post I said make women feel like sh**. I simply stated that you need to assert DOMINANCE more and let people know your noone to be fuked with. Thats your fukin problem, you think the world is a happy place where women are angels. Dude, check this out, you know what I like to do when Im fukin a girl, I spread her legs out and fuk her so deep to see how much she can take and see how she REACTS, whether she says ouch, tightens up or when she says "..deeper..", most of the time it tends to be deeper.
Damn Im such a bad guy....
Now the second problem you have is that your blaming your problems on your looks by rationalizing them over and over again, reaffirming them and BAM you think your cured. Unless you look like a murderer or just plain mean no way in hell should you have a problem with your looks. Your in no way shape or form an AFC, it's just your manlyness is repressed and HAS been repressed for so long you don't know WTF happened. Learn to love yourself and the world shall love you twice as much, I promise. Start hitting the gym to and most of all stop acting like a bit**. :cuss:
I was never raised to be an AFC. My own mother was a drop dead gorgeous woman who played and teased other men like crazy even though she first had sex after marriage did it with only 2 men. She wouldn't lie to me. She told me other things, sad things, things I wouldn't want to hear, but they were honest, so I know she doesn't lie about that.
I was always told and conditioned to be confident, dominant, and have the POWER in family and relationship but I was also raised to be RESPECTFUL and caring to those who deserve it.
On the other hand, women from over there LIKE to be feminine and LIKE to serve men. THIS WAY, they automatically deserve respect! No need to walk over them, no need to subdue them. You can be loving and respectful to them.
HERE, you have to PUT THEM DOWN a few levels so they the same way.
I, personally, do not want that! That means I am changing her into something, I am making her BE something she SHOULD be but is not by choice.
I want a woman who is like that by choice. I met one in US so far. She invited me over, made me dinner, fed me, and took care all around me! She was my only GF and it was good while it lasted.
Its hard to find women like these anywhere these days, but regardless....I don't feel good about myself when I put other women down (who are not feminine in behavior).
If I do that - I like myself LESS. That would be horrible for my confidence. I don't have a right to kill a man for murdering someone even though I think he deserves it the same way I don't have a right to insult a woman who is independent rather than feminine. I would ONLY do so if she tried to put ME down, but GIRLS DON'T DO THAT TO ME.
In regard to sex - no sh*t Sherlock... I don't think girls are angels and I know many like it rough like animals! But thats not disrespectful...thats not being a butthole!
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Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
DevanE said:
Did you mean 180? Because 360 is a circle...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
I am happy to see there are other people in the forum willing to give the tough love that people need to hear.:crackup: Keep it up Devan!DevanE said:
DevanE said:
But look at it this way...a girl drops her books and stands there waiting for some AFC to pick them up - f*ck that, she shouldn't have dropped them or someone may trip and fall!
A girl drops her books and tries to gather them in a hurry because she is probably late... I will stop and help. WHY? Because if it would be me in her situation, I would want someone to help and some GIRL (yes, a girl!) or some guy WOULD.
Should I walk over a girl who approached me, talked to me, number closed ME (by sticking her number in my phone and asking if she will see me again)???
Its been so many times when I would reply to a girl like that "Are you worth seeing again?" in a ****y manner and they would get so sad because I showed my dominance before she even approached me! Thats why she did it in the first place...
If a girl disses me...and some tried - I will make it HELL for them. I would, for example, scream at a party "You f*cked 7 guys and had 2 threesomes and yet you are only 18?!??!?!" so that EVERYONE can hear me.
However....whats the difference between disrespect and being a butthole?
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