"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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future_strongguy

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:up: I'll start this log so I can get ideas and encouragement!

Me: 6 feet tall, 155 lbs, 25 lbs underweight
I've done weight training for... 8 months I think. My first three months I tried Anthony Ellis's bodybuilding program. The next three months I tried Stronglifts 5x5. Now I'm doing stuff from Infinite Intensity. I started at about 150 lbs and I think since then the 5 lbs I have gained have been solid muscle, because I look much better than I once was.

Goals: I want to look like this, maybe it'll take 10 years but I'm not hurrying for anything: http://rosstraining.com/images/rossnew1.jpg

I want to get better in tennis and golf by gaining weight and increasing fitness, power, and strength.

Right now I need to get to 180 lbs to maximize my potential in sports without putting on unnecessary bulk.

diet: Tough one... I did try eating loads of food for a month or two but couldn't really gain any weight. I've been stuck at 155 lbs for so long now. Right now my diet looks like this:

meal one: bacon, sausage, hashbrowns, and maybe a fruit
meal two: chicken or fish, pasta, veggies, and some kind of fruit
meal three: beef, pasta, and veggies
meal four: beef, pasta, and veggies
maybe another meal of beef, pasta, and veggies but I usually don't have time.
I also take 6 fish oil pills that I think are 1000mg each. Is this enough?

I don't eat eggs or cheese, or drink milk or whey. These are bad for my acne and give me stomach aches anyways.

workout: I'm doing the 50 day routine from Ross's book Infinite Intensity. I went through it one and a half times now, and I really like it. It's just what I need for tennis. It'll be hard to gain weight with it but I can't sacrifice conditioning.

Here's what my program looks like:
day 1: warrior challenge (a workout that blends strength and conditioning)
day 2: interval running + core training
day 3: strength or power routine
day 4: GPP workout + core training
day 5: rest

today I did core training and interval running:

10 x 100 meters
5 x 50 meters

turkish getups x 5 per arm
saxon side bend x 6 per side
v ups 6-8
knee tucks 6-8
I did 3 circuits of this then finished with a plank hold to near failure.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I like your workout routine. If you want to put on some more weight i would try something i did to get it.

Heres how it went.

Day 1 - Squats 3x6 | Abs 3x8 | Deadlift 3x6 | Calfs 3x6
Day 2 - Bench 3x6 | Curls 3x6 | Triceps 3x6 | Shoulder Rolls 3x6
Day 3 - Repeat Day 1 | 1 mile on treadmill @ 5.5mph constant.
Day 4 - Repeat Day 2 | No running
Day 5 - Repeat Day 1 | 1 mile on treadmill @ 5.5mph constant.
Day 6 - Rest
Day 7 - Rest

I also at 4 Huge meals a day. I brought in probably around 3500-4000 calories daily. Over a three months period i jumped from 155lbs to 215lbs.

I had alot of fat on me at 215lbs, so i started cutting. Thats what you can do, you can get some fat which will help you build alot of muscle, then when you get about 10-15lbs over what you want, cut it off...just dont starve yourself do the 6x small meal daily routine.
 
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