My little story... what next?

[TheMaestro87]

Ok, guys, I've been a lurker here for awhile, posted a few crap threads. Now I'm looking for help and learning what I can on the site. This is my recent history.

Came into college last year, just out of a long relationship in HS. Didn't drink, smoked occassionally, overall just wasn't someone you'd party with. I was pretty much miserable all of first quarter though towards the end I stumbled upon this site. I used what I learned and picked up a girl who ended up going out with me for all of winter quarter. It was exactly what I need to get over my last girlfriend.

End of winter quarter I break up with this girl because she's too clingy. I also join a social fraternity, Chi Phi. Anyways, just chill spring (while pledging) and summer, not really caring about girls. Just opening sets for fun and all that. Anyways, this school year rolls around (we start tomorrow. Late, I know) and Chi Phi has been having parties the last 5 nights, usually downing 2+ kegs a night.

The reason I am making this post is because the past few nights I've become very popular, especially with the incoming freshman. We're trying to get as many guys to rush as possible so I'm trying to win over the guys that come just as much as the girls. I feel like it's done wonders for my game, seeing how I get tons of people I don't remember coming up to me asking for pictures and advice and bull****. Essentially, I've established myself as the AMOG of almost every group I approach (it's very easy to be impressionable on freshmen). I'm coming across as funny, ****y and likable. I neg girls a lot (read The Game over the summer, but don't use canned openers). Only thing is that I'm not really sure how to go about getting the girls. I seem to have done a good job choosing a target (which I haven't done in the past) and actually getting them somewhat interested. My question is where do I move from there and how does my AMOG image with the target and her friends play into what I should be doing?

Any thoughts, advice, opinions or questions?

Edit. One really nice thing about this that makes it a lot easier than the "real" world is that I'm never having to disarm the girls friends, male or female.

 

[eyedogg]

Sounds like your gaining social proof. Have you tried using these in a group/party setting in front of girls? If so, how has it worked out?

 

[TheMaestro87]

Oh, sorry, I guess I didn't clarify. These sets have all been opened at my fraternity at parties the last few nights. I'm gaining social proof at the parties and have a lot of people coming back and talking to me and everyone knows me. So... what next?

 

[greenlake]

hey what up man.
i dunno what to tell you man. i think you're doing good and should stop thinking too much. the fact that you're being the AMOG around these freshmen made you want to not screw up, right? you got two choice, be yourself around them or act the kool grown up dude that u want them to think. but no matter what, just be confident. the reason you're asking us this question was because you want to get laid, right? since you're currently the AMOG of the group, they will do anything you say especially the girls. i hope that help.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Depends on what you want...

One night stand - Just escalate from there, go for the kiss and see where it leads

Long term - Build rapport, set up a day2 and f-close

Keep doing what your doing right now. If you are running sh!t then the girls are going to think of you as high value, so keep doing what your doing. The only thing is your not escalating.

 

[TheMaestro87]

I think I have good set ups (yes, there are multiple, ie 5 or 6) for option two there with the f-close. Either way, I need advice on how to escalate. I've always built instant rapport with girls, but never escalated well. I have gotten a little better with Kino recently. HELP!

 

[Snow Plowman]

Well I can't really give much on escalating besides just doing it without any hesistation.

- Hug her
- Put your arms around her
- Jokingly push her
- Get real close to her and touch her neck
- Triangular gaze: Slow down speaking, get closer, look at lips eyes lips eyes and kiss
- Move her around (Isolate)
- Engage and disengage all kino
- Sexuall escalate when isolated

Hope that helps

 

[TheMaestro87]

- Hug her [x]
- Put your arms around her [x]
- Jokingly push her
- Get real close to her and touch her neck
- Triangular gaze: Slow down speaking, get closer, look at lips eyes lips eyes and kiss
- Move her around (Isolate)
- Engage and disengage all kino [x]
- Sexuall escalate when isolated

Looks like I have 3 of 8 already covered that I do naturally. I think the only thing is that when I'm like hugging girls, it's usually not just one so it doesn't make the target feel different (I'm a huggy kinda guy, especially when drunk).

Looking at your advice, it looks like what I really need help with is isolation, what to say, and how to go about getting the girl away from her friends or distractions or at least someplace where she's not too self-concious for me to kiss-close or whatnot.

Thanks for all the responses, guys, you really are pulling through for me.

PS. the big party is Friday. Should be 300+ and almost every freshman, male or female, is going to know me or of me. I'd like to have a plan of action for that night.

 

[Snow Plowman]

lol, your a lucky guy because I'm still up and I manage to post 3 times in one thread in almost less than a hour...

Isolation comes down to frame control, whent he chick is already attracted and stuff due to what you've already been doing, it will be easier for them to follow your lead... All you have to do is grab there hand "lets go". Some other ones...

- "It's too loud lets go somewhere quieter where I can actually hear you"
- "Hey I'm going out front to get some fresh air lets go"
- Grab her hand and don't tell her where your going if she asks, don't answer and if you want tell her its a surprise

Also note, isolation doesn't neccesarily mean you need to be in room with just you two. Isolation could be just on the couch further away from her group, or her back turned from her group and her facing you. Or even you in a dark corner of the house.

Just remember when the Iron is hot (Her laughing, giggling, touching you, enjoying the conversation, etc) escalate and isolate and escalate some more. Don't focus on looking for IOIs just asssume attraction because it sounds like you already have attraction handled based off your first post.

 

[TheMaestro87]

Sounds like a plan. Here is an interesting dilemna I might get into... Who do I go for? And what do I do if I have a target and out of nowhere I get strong IOI's from another girl? 3some? lol.