"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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my lil sister

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I am totally confused with this girl. She has a bf, but is constantly flirting with me. She was at a party last night and when i came, she started hanging all over me and holding my hand and wanting to take pictures. Her bf was there and i see him giving me sort of an evil look when she was doign all of this. What also confuses me is that she is flirty with every1, but not like me. I even ignored her for a couple of weeks, but she still persisted. What do I do?, we are both 16.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Damn your lil sister?

Um yeh just play your normal game with her. It shouldnt be any different, if anything it will be easier, as at home its more of a relaxed environment, which will give you a chance to kick some C+F and kino etc. Her being your lil sis, you can use the teasing thing well too. Like if she takes the remote or something, just be like 'you better give me the remote back or im going to...' Sh1t like that.

Good luck.
 

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another thought that enters my head is that she could just be using me to get her bf jealous, but idk.
 
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