My life sucks :(

[Nobody]

Growing up, up until 8th grade I had friends but never was the cool kid. I always was following someone. Nobody ever respected me. I figured when I got to High School, I had finally got the chance to move on with that chapter and really start to party and have friends. High School so far has sucked for me.

9th grade, I thought I figured it out. I was the most outgoing person. For about a month, I had it set. I was the most popular kid in school. Then slowly it went away. I was a ***** and told girl's friends that I had a crush on them and ever since then I've had girls I try to avoid because they give me beaty eye looks. On top of that, it seemed as though people hated me. On top of that, I ended my Freshman year with a 3.64 GPA.

10th grade, it's slowly ending. It started much like 9th grade. I got my first girlfriend by sheer luck (friend's friends set you up). Then I broke up with my girlfriend, and have not hung out with any friends on the weekend since (December). I invite people, but they always got other ****. Nobody ever shows up. I got to a school with 300 people in my Sophomore class. 100 of which think they're popular. The bottom 100 are jackoffs. The other 100 are just girls. I have no to talk to. On top of that, I like a Freshman girl. She's not even that pretty, but she's got me. She's always with her friend too. It blows. Someone help me.

 

[dreamx]

Dude my life sucks as well,trust me my life is way worser then you.Man you should be happy that atleast you had a girlfriend.Everyday in school I get picked on and im known as a nerd,loser,geek,dork plus nobody likes me and i dont have any friends both boys and girls.Plus no girl talks to me, and i dont talk to any guys or girls so im an social outcast.I never had a girlfriend all my life,never been to a party all my life,never been kissed all my life and still a virgin.Plus all my life I have had only 2 or 3 friends so you should be thankful your life isnt like my ****ty life,trust you dont want to be in my life.

 

[madseason]

Looks like you should try meeting some new people. Pick up a new hobby, start working out and listen to some good music that you can sing along with. It might sound like what I'm telling you to do is pointless, but if you start changing your life things will change for you.

Dreamx: the spacebar is there for a reason, buddy

 

[originaldj]

The people on this site are not psychiatrists. They can not make your life better so do not ask. You already know what youmust do to be happy, yet you come on this site for pity. Guess what you are not going to get any. You must take the initiative to make friends. If you have a quaestion about improving tehn by all means ask away. But if your question is "my life sucks, can you help me" Then **** off. Too many people use the members on this site as an emotional crutch. Get a life and tell your prolems to someone who gives a shyt.

 

[comic_relief]

First off, Dreamx and Nobody welcome to the site.

Secondly, your life does not suck. Let me put this into perspective for you on why your life does not suck. 6,000,000 killed in the Holocaust. not allowed to eat that much, always trying to be killed off, hated on for many years. Finally died in the camps or wherever. They had a shatty life. If you think you had a bad life think about those. They were killed off. This stuff goes on everyday. You should be thankful that you have the choices to live your life how you want. Stop b!tching.

I was in the same situation that you guys were in. I never had a girlfriend. Lost all of my friends except for maybe four or five friends. Never been kissed. Didn't get invited to parties. That was the midway mark of 10th grade. I found this site and two years later I have a girlfriend that loves me, been invited to parties, have more friends that like me for who I am, got accepted unto the National FCCLA Convention for Career Investigation, went to the Pennsylvania Governor School of Excellence for Teaching, , a teachers aide for special education students, and and managed to become a role model and a hero to many at my school.

Thirdly, you have a choice. You are stuck in your own making. This may sound wierd but think about it. You choose to listen to the labels that you have upon you. You are told that you don't have friends? You are told that you aren't strong? Listen to those people and fix it. Someone said last year that I was gay a lot. I shut him up by getting three girls numbers right in front of him. Shut those @$$3$ up. Fight it :box:. You live in a safe enviroment and you can fight back with self-improvement. they want to try sh!t prove them wrong.

Fourthly, you got a huge database of information to read and learn from but apply it to your lives. This is one of the most critical parts that over 90% of this website does not do. They seem to read like crazy and no their booksmarts but don't know sh!t about how to apply it.

Fifth, Relax and have fun. Remember that this won't happen overnight but it will happen if you are persistent. I had my own business but it was shut down even after people told me that I wouldn't make it. Screw them I made it and am happy.

comic_relief

EDIT: If you ask for help then I will help but do not expect me to give you pity. I will not give out pity because you couldn't improve yourself. If I can do it than anyone can.

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

i agree with you man, your life sucks, but think about this, at least no one is bullying the sht out of you,and you had a girlfriend, so consider yourself lucky.
When i was in high school, i was exactly like you, the guy who never fitted in, the guy who had no one to talk to, the guy who always go home alone etc... I was having a hell of a time in school and at home with my parents(in england, domestic violence is common), i tried take my self out of my life but even that failed, so compared to me, your life sucks but mine sucked more.
Guess what i did-i held out, i used all those extra time to study, i used all the hate to propel my self, i drove my self to my limits, and i had one clear goal in mind, after high school, i am going to XXX college and i am going to become popular.
My hard work paid off, i got into my college with excellent results, now i fit in just fine, everybody likes me, i have lots of friend and i am on my way to dating this HB9 who has hated me in highschool.
So my advice is, dont self pity, be who you are, drive your self to becoming a better man, have a better inner game. Have a clear target about where you want to be after high school and work hard to achieve it, trust me when you find the college you can fit into, you will love it.
You guys must not self pity, just hold out these too years, spend all these energy on the books, and boy, are the rewards sweet(grammar school girls...), after you worked hard in highschool and got into a good college, you are going to become successful and have a much better life than those losers who laughed at you in high school.
I am in my first year in college and after next year i am going to med school, i can imagine my self as a doctor 6 years after, driving a top brand sports car with a HB9 by my side because by that time i will be a master DJ, and guess what are the guys who bullied me in high school are doing?? they cant get into a collge now and they are going to end up in the streets.
He who laughs in the end is the winner, remember that my junior DJs, drive your selves, dont give up hope, i promis you tommorow will be better.
From a DJ who was in a worst situation

 

[Vincent]

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