"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My life is good.

disgustipated

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I make 30k a year, drive a 90s model beater pickup, I'm in good shape, decent friends, I'm blessed to be able to game women and get new puusy..even if they're 6-7s. I have 5 days off and have **** to do everyday. Friends , family and fuucking. New lady is otw over in a bit...will be second time we've fuucked and the sex is great already. I'll make a dinner in a bit, told her bring da movies lol, well pretend watch it then get at it. I'm gonna rub her down with oil and tease her til she can't take it no more.

I live an average life by most guys standards but dammit if nights like tonight don't put a smile on my face. I'm thankful for all the blessings in my life. Happy hunting!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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if that all what you want from life and have enough to retire then good for you , otherwise you should consider taking some actions to increase your standards of living .
 

Albatross953

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Dude, I make great money and it won't make you happy. 30k is plenty if you treat it right. The older I get, the more important family and friends get. I think that's the real measure of life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your life is good. It's simple and you have all that makes you happy. Good job.
 

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Dear Disgustipated,
You seem to have a good mix of Work and Leisure...I really wish I had worked less played more!...Learn from the Dolphin...One third Sleep,one third work,then the remainder Svex and Play!
 

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Albatross953 said:
Dude, I make great money and it won't make you happy. 30k is plenty if you treat it right. The older I get, the more important family and friends get. I think that's the real measure of life.
If you don't have student loans it absolutely is enough. I'll be making 60 before taxes next year, but I live like a monk bc rent and loan pmts eat about half my check each month. I don't think $ is all that Impt, if you're single. How big of an apt/ house do you need just for yourself, if you go out to the bars to pick up chicks, why doe it matter what car you drive of they don't see it, assuming you don't drive drunk. I wear decent clothes, mostly bc I have to wear a suit to work everyday, but no need to go overboard. $ is Impt to help you live, but don't live for $.
 
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