"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My life in a thread: 10 years of nothing and then....

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Ok, edited and cleaned up. Sorry for that, i'll try harder this time lol.
Starring:
Me
Girl 1 (lost my virginity to)
Girl 2 (currently seeing her)
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Random girls (icy babe, gay watch babes, giving me the finger babe, tatoo babe, facebook babe, 2 foreign babes.)



Avoided girls for 10 years, met girl off dating site last year, red flags but i was too dumb to move on. Stayed in the minefield and got burned. Was afc in many ways, ie: way i spoke, supplicating, not leading, too nice. Yet the physical side, touching and escalating wasn't really a problem. I spoke to other girls on the net, my c+f was working, but i never pushed it further due to me having oneitis for this girl i lost my virginity to. Eventually i spoke to a girl, we got on and planned to have a date Jan this year. Meanwhile i was still thinking i was dating this first girl. Turns out she met another guy and was getting nailed while i was fawning over her like a retard.

Currently have had a number of dates with this 2nd girl, we get on. Helped me to move on, but i still have contact with the 1st lass.

While dating 2nd girl, i went out with a school friend and for the first time in my life approached some girls. Made me realise how easy it can be, even if the interaction doesn't go well.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My reason for posting is this:
As i was like thousands of mongoids not getting on with life, i have learned quite alot in a short space of time about myself and only a small bit about girls i figure by simply stepping out the front door.

Now some advice needed: When i went out i was looking around and i spotted a girl who i really liked the look of. I told my friend i was gonna go speak to her. He said "She looks stuck up." Which kinda put me off, but my confidence was high at the time and i would have waded in and done it, regardless of the outcome. So what should i do in those situations? My thinking is that it's not fair basing an opinion about someone by the way they look. Example: if a girl has a *****y looking face, she might seem icy and cold right? Yet if you talk to her, she smiles and has a bubbly personality. So should i still wade in and go with the flow?

I dont want to develop oneitis with girl 2, i want to learn from my error from the 1st time. So as i dont go out too often, is it easy to go out in the day and talk to girls? I get embarrased easily at times, yet i find that if im chilled and allow my confidence to take over i feel a smile on my face and can look people in the eyes. Does it get easier the more you do? Any examples that people can give of approaches that went wrong?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You don't really expect us to read all that do you?

Brevity is the soul of wit...
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So, you found a girl with big boobs and made out with her...Uh...good for you.
 
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