"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My life has been so much better

Casino

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Since I found the "community"

How has your life been affected?

Had I not found the community I think I would be massively confused on how to deal with women. I always heard nice guys finish last but never believed it. I was told that women like bad boys or guys with an edge but never really took it to heart.

The bottomline is that I've been involved in this community for over 1 year and now know exactly how to treat and deal with women.

When I compare myself to guys around me I can't help but think on how much more evolved I am then them. I KNOW how to talk to WOMEN. Two years ago Casino talking to a girl was like a job interview. Now I can make them enter my reality. I love how I can talk to a chick and slowly get her to enter my reality til the point where I've got her talking about taboo subjects.

Are you like me and just cringe when you hear AFCness? Or witness AFCness? I feel sorry for them. I want to show them a better way but yet i'm selfish and know deep down that they need to initiate the change themselves.

Anyways, how has your life been impacted by this select community?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Boner da Stoner

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this site has helped me to know there are AFC's out there and I wasn't the only one trying to live up to all the perfect images out there...

I could do so many things and still I would label myself as a loser, a poser, a never has been... I still do on a regular basis, but so much less so now, I'm trying to work on being ****y

My comedy is still next to non-existant, I can laugh at myself, mistakes, and jokes... but I'm lucky if I get a laugh

This place is for me to know theres a way to get ladies to like me instead of treatin me like ****, but I have to find a good comedy site.

SoSuave gets 4/5 stars
 

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Well I actually just commented on it in another thread (poor guy, I think I may have borderlined on hijacking), the community has definitely changed my life. I was "nice guy" to the tendon before I found the community. I took things to the extreme though and became obsessed with pick ups, and it wasn't until lately that I realized I was still unhappy with my life in regards to women. Lately I've just been concentrating much more time on my career and aspirations, and as far as women, I just try to be myself, but use the knowledge gained through the community to help in attracting. I qualify a lot more now than I used to though, as I am interested in finding a long term relationship. I dunno, the revolving list of names and numbers kind of gets old after a while. So I guess I'm more pro-So Suave then ever (the REAL So Suave, the one that teaches man to find happiness in all aspects of life, and to ultimately find a woman he can vibe with). Perhaps it is like the Anti-Dump machine, but without any kind of forced or canned game. I try to remain natural, and my subconscious seems to do the rest. Instead of pushing the game, I just be myself and watch as the elements of the game fall into place.
 
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