So, this is my first time posting in this forum. I really wish i would have had something like this in my high school days when i was the #1 AFC around.
This is a long ass post lol
Well,yeah a couple of years ago i used to be the dude who would be too nice to women, get played and humiliated, and then find another girl and just do it all over again. It was a sad viscous cycle. My breaking point came when i finally met a girl who i managed to keep for a while. This girl became my girlfriend for two years and she was the supposed "Love" of my life. Then one day i find out that she had been talking to this guy she works with that i know. I read some of thier text messages on the phone. I ****en hated this guy :box: . The real reason i hated him was because all of my life, i wanted to be like him, but for some reason I couldnt. He was the kind of guy who got all the girls and treated them like trash but would still have more girls fighting for his attention. He was cool and I wasnt, he dressed well and I didn't, he had confidence, and i didnt. So i confronted her, being the insecure ***** i was at the time and ended up looking like a real chump because it was just a casual conversation. This was a fatal mistake. I just reinforced the idea in her mind that he had more value than I did, and made myself look like a whiny *****. A couple of days later, she tells me that she cheated on me with him, and that she wants to see other people. Of course I was devastated and though she cheated on me, i wanted her back. I just couldnt understand why she would leave a loving caring relationship to be just another one of his many hoes. Well anyway to make a long story short I was a sucka. But this incident made me mad enough to change and never have to feel like that again. And I succeeded. And I'll share with you how i did it. Maybe it will save some poor sap from going through what I went through.
1. INVEST IN YOURSELF
I'm not talking about just money, im talking about your money, your time, and your thoughts. Stop wasting it on these hoes and be selfish and use it all on you. So I looked at myself and said what could i change? First, i was really skinny and i hated being skinny and weak, so i gotta gym membership and became a gym rat for a good 5 months. I was completely obsessed lol. I managed to pack on a good 15 - 20 lbs of muscle and in the end i became a ****en shredded beast. Everybody who knew me before and saw me now was like
wtf happened to you. And that ladies and gentlemen was the best investment i ever made . I became more confident, and i started getting more attention from females and even jealous males lol, i had countless people asking me for workout advice and trying to accompany me to the gym.
Next was my wardrobe. I dressed like a faggot (No offense) before. But now with my new physique my options increased. Guess what ppl. ALMOST EVERYTHING LOOKS GOOD IF YOUR FIT OR MUSCULAR. You don't have to buy all brand name stuff to dress well either. Just make sure your outfit is clean, crisp, and neat, and for godsakes no wrinkles. How your clothes fit is also a major part in how you look. Do not wear anything too tight or too big.
My new wardrobe consisted of a lot of plain v neck white tees, and black v-necks. fitted t shirts, fitted button up shirts and good looking neat jeans and pants. Your shoes should always be clean and new, dont wear old shoes or sneakers, if they look worn thow them out. they should always look new. No flashy jewlery either. Just wear a nice watch, maybe a nice chain too. you dont need to wear a diamond studded watch and a huge rapper chain. you look like your trying too hard.
Next make sure your well groomed. Get constant haircuts, shape ups, tape ups, go on youtube and learn how to do it yourself if you dont want to spend the money. If you can, grow some kind of facial hair and trim/shape it nice. *****es like that .
Next get some kind of hobby, or become an expert at something, join a club, go back to school. Something, anything to keep you busy. I went back to school and completely immersed myself in it and graduated, and got a new job and now i make triple what i used too. Im a male nurse btw. I joined a flag football league, and i play basketball at my school and the park frequently. I became a health nut too. I say do this so you can create a life for yourself other than chasing girls and you dont have to pretend to be busy, you'll actually be busy. Plus, you'll meet a ****load of new people, and increase your social status. So now i even had a new crew to hang out with when i went "hunting" lol.
Now, i had to change the way i thought about myself. I stopped obsessing over whether girls liked me or not, i simply did not care, because i knew if one didn't like me, i was pretty sure her friend did. I knew i had value and that was all that mattered **** what they thought. This might sound crazy but i convinced myself that i was smarter than they were, better looking than them, richer than them, and overall better than them. and thats how i treated them, and they ate that **** up
Now that thats done, let me teach you some stuff
1. Its all about value to women. You could be the ugliest, fattest, brokest guy on the block and still pull the best looking girls if you have high value.
heres another tip. WOMEN WILL NEVER INVOLVE THEMSELVES WITH MEN WHO THIER FRIENDS DONT VALUE. Woman dont want you to be laughed at or embaressed so they pick the males who they know other woman wont laugh at. Its pretty simple, you wouldn't bring the fat girl and introduce her to your friends would you.
2. The way you carry yourself is 80% of the game. Stand straight, dont slouch, dont put your hand in your pockets, walk slowly and graceful like, never rush, all your movements should be slow and controlled. make eye contact. Look like your enjoying yourself laugh, have fun.
3. Dont be a *****. Remember you are better than them so dont be afraid of saying the wrong thing or doing the wrong thing, they can smell fear. If you want to tell her that her boobs look nice, go ahead, if you want to hold her hand, go ahead (btw, only if your having a conversation already dont open with that lol) Dont be afraid, if they like you, woman will let you get away with a lot. If they dont who cares lol.
4. All women are deeply insecure, even the best looking ones, so make them feel insecure lol. laugh at them, let them know your better than them, or smarter than them. But do it gracefully dont brag, and dont be a ****.( i'll show you an example later)
5. Dont be Insecure. women are insecure, and just like we think the beautiful ones are perfect, they think men they like are perfect. So be perfect. Dont show any insecurites because once you do, your value takes a nose dive, trust me.
6. Be in control. Your a man, you do what you want to do. Never react to women, let them react to you. Always pause, reflect, and then reply. dont speak too fast. never get angry, happy, or sad because of them, they have no effect on you. only you can make yourself be angry, happy, sad. Always control yourself, and then you can control them. Dont ask for anything, always tell.
7. Relax when you approach women. Women look for your lead so if you approach them all akward and ****, they pick up on that and then its akward. But if your relaxed, cool, and non chalant they are more receptive to you.
8. Make em laugh. They want to have fun. Make yourself fun. make fun of people around you, make fun of the music, make fun of her, DONT MAKE FUN OF YOURSELF lol. Be witty, dont be safe. **** safe, safe is for pussies be brave.
9. Have fun with your friends, be happy around them, ignore them for your friends make sure they know there not your priority.
10. Be sexual. Let them know your want sex, without saying you want sex (i'll show you an example later)
11. When you ask for her number just say "We should hang out sometime, give me your number and i'll set something up when im free". That **** is foolproof, its not akward, it takes all the work away from her. when she gives it to you dont text her until 3 or 4 days later. say whats up, set something up, and thats it. if she tries to talk just dont reply. That drives them crazy.
12. Let them do all of the talking, but you steer the conversation. You give her a subject and let em talk until you want to change the subject
13. STOP TALKING. Be mysterious, dont give to much out.
eg, Girl: So, do you have a girlfriend?
Me: what do you think?
Girl: I dont know lol, i cant read you. You look like the type who gets a lot of attention from girls
Me: you think so
Girl: I dunno i guess i have to know you better first lol
Me: we'll see
See just give out the bare minimum.
This is a long ass post lol
Well,yeah a couple of years ago i used to be the dude who would be too nice to women, get played and humiliated, and then find another girl and just do it all over again. It was a sad viscous cycle. My breaking point came when i finally met a girl who i managed to keep for a while. This girl became my girlfriend for two years and she was the supposed "Love" of my life. Then one day i find out that she had been talking to this guy she works with that i know. I read some of thier text messages on the phone. I ****en hated this guy :box: . The real reason i hated him was because all of my life, i wanted to be like him, but for some reason I couldnt. He was the kind of guy who got all the girls and treated them like trash but would still have more girls fighting for his attention. He was cool and I wasnt, he dressed well and I didn't, he had confidence, and i didnt. So i confronted her, being the insecure ***** i was at the time and ended up looking like a real chump because it was just a casual conversation. This was a fatal mistake. I just reinforced the idea in her mind that he had more value than I did, and made myself look like a whiny *****. A couple of days later, she tells me that she cheated on me with him, and that she wants to see other people. Of course I was devastated and though she cheated on me, i wanted her back. I just couldnt understand why she would leave a loving caring relationship to be just another one of his many hoes. Well anyway to make a long story short I was a sucka. But this incident made me mad enough to change and never have to feel like that again. And I succeeded. And I'll share with you how i did it. Maybe it will save some poor sap from going through what I went through.
1. INVEST IN YOURSELF
I'm not talking about just money, im talking about your money, your time, and your thoughts. Stop wasting it on these hoes and be selfish and use it all on you. So I looked at myself and said what could i change? First, i was really skinny and i hated being skinny and weak, so i gotta gym membership and became a gym rat for a good 5 months. I was completely obsessed lol. I managed to pack on a good 15 - 20 lbs of muscle and in the end i became a ****en shredded beast. Everybody who knew me before and saw me now was like
wtf happened to you. And that ladies and gentlemen was the best investment i ever made . I became more confident, and i started getting more attention from females and even jealous males lol, i had countless people asking me for workout advice and trying to accompany me to the gym. Next was my wardrobe. I dressed like a faggot (No offense) before. But now with my new physique my options increased. Guess what ppl. ALMOST EVERYTHING LOOKS GOOD IF YOUR FIT OR MUSCULAR. You don't have to buy all brand name stuff to dress well either. Just make sure your outfit is clean, crisp, and neat, and for godsakes no wrinkles. How your clothes fit is also a major part in how you look. Do not wear anything too tight or too big.
My new wardrobe consisted of a lot of plain v neck white tees, and black v-necks. fitted t shirts, fitted button up shirts and good looking neat jeans and pants. Your shoes should always be clean and new, dont wear old shoes or sneakers, if they look worn thow them out. they should always look new. No flashy jewlery either. Just wear a nice watch, maybe a nice chain too. you dont need to wear a diamond studded watch and a huge rapper chain. you look like your trying too hard.
Next make sure your well groomed. Get constant haircuts, shape ups, tape ups, go on youtube and learn how to do it yourself if you dont want to spend the money. If you can, grow some kind of facial hair and trim/shape it nice. *****es like that
.Next get some kind of hobby, or become an expert at something, join a club, go back to school. Something, anything to keep you busy. I went back to school and completely immersed myself in it and graduated, and got a new job and now i make triple what i used too. Im a male nurse btw. I joined a flag football league, and i play basketball at my school and the park frequently. I became a health nut too. I say do this so you can create a life for yourself other than chasing girls and you dont have to pretend to be busy, you'll actually be busy. Plus, you'll meet a ****load of new people, and increase your social status. So now i even had a new crew to hang out with when i went "hunting" lol.
Now, i had to change the way i thought about myself. I stopped obsessing over whether girls liked me or not, i simply did not care, because i knew if one didn't like me, i was pretty sure her friend did. I knew i had value and that was all that mattered **** what they thought. This might sound crazy but i convinced myself that i was smarter than they were, better looking than them, richer than them, and overall better than them. and thats how i treated them, and they ate that **** up
Now that thats done, let me teach you some stuff
1. Its all about value to women. You could be the ugliest, fattest, brokest guy on the block and still pull the best looking girls if you have high value.
heres another tip. WOMEN WILL NEVER INVOLVE THEMSELVES WITH MEN WHO THIER FRIENDS DONT VALUE. Woman dont want you to be laughed at or embaressed so they pick the males who they know other woman wont laugh at. Its pretty simple, you wouldn't bring the fat girl and introduce her to your friends would you.
2. The way you carry yourself is 80% of the game. Stand straight, dont slouch, dont put your hand in your pockets, walk slowly and graceful like, never rush, all your movements should be slow and controlled. make eye contact. Look like your enjoying yourself laugh, have fun.
3. Dont be a *****. Remember you are better than them so dont be afraid of saying the wrong thing or doing the wrong thing, they can smell fear. If you want to tell her that her boobs look nice, go ahead, if you want to hold her hand, go ahead (btw, only if your having a conversation already dont open with that lol) Dont be afraid, if they like you, woman will let you get away with a lot. If they dont who cares lol.
4. All women are deeply insecure, even the best looking ones, so make them feel insecure lol. laugh at them, let them know your better than them, or smarter than them. But do it gracefully dont brag, and dont be a ****.( i'll show you an example later)
5. Dont be Insecure. women are insecure, and just like we think the beautiful ones are perfect, they think men they like are perfect. So be perfect. Dont show any insecurites because once you do, your value takes a nose dive, trust me.
6. Be in control. Your a man, you do what you want to do. Never react to women, let them react to you. Always pause, reflect, and then reply. dont speak too fast. never get angry, happy, or sad because of them, they have no effect on you. only you can make yourself be angry, happy, sad. Always control yourself, and then you can control them. Dont ask for anything, always tell.
7. Relax when you approach women. Women look for your lead so if you approach them all akward and ****, they pick up on that and then its akward. But if your relaxed, cool, and non chalant they are more receptive to you.
8. Make em laugh. They want to have fun. Make yourself fun. make fun of people around you, make fun of the music, make fun of her, DONT MAKE FUN OF YOURSELF lol. Be witty, dont be safe. **** safe, safe is for pussies be brave.
9. Have fun with your friends, be happy around them, ignore them for your friends make sure they know there not your priority.
10. Be sexual. Let them know your want sex, without saying you want sex (i'll show you an example later)
11. When you ask for her number just say "We should hang out sometime, give me your number and i'll set something up when im free". That **** is foolproof, its not akward, it takes all the work away from her. when she gives it to you dont text her until 3 or 4 days later. say whats up, set something up, and thats it. if she tries to talk just dont reply. That drives them crazy.
12. Let them do all of the talking, but you steer the conversation. You give her a subject and let em talk until you want to change the subject
13. STOP TALKING. Be mysterious, dont give to much out.
eg, Girl: So, do you have a girlfriend?
Me: what do you think?
Girl: I dont know lol, i cant read you. You look like the type who gets a lot of attention from girls
Me: you think so
Girl: I dunno i guess i have to know you better first lol
Me: we'll see
See just give out the bare minimum.