My last thread on this.

[pikachu_69]

After what happened last night, would it have been better to confront her for her lying to embarass her in front of her new guy?

I feel agrieved that I didn't say anything in person and just did it by text after.

What would I have said when I see them together kissing each other or holding hands?

I assume wish him all the best and good luck cos he'll need it. I feel maximum embarassment for her was needed. Now in the aftermath he has no clue and I look stupid with me dealing with it in a mature manner last night.

I feel like such a pvssy for hiding behind a car when I saw them walking hand in hand leaving the bar. grrr. If I encounter this situation again in future with a different girl what is the best thing to say to them?

I was thinking like 'oh so this is really good friends huh? so you're the spanish gf? ' then shake the guys hand and wish him luck. She doesn't feel stupid or embarassed cos i didn't cause a confrontation out in the open where she's caught.

 

[katatonia]

Did you read any of the posts in the other thread? I already fvcking told you what to do.

DON'T CONFRONT HER OR THIS OTHER GUY.

DON'T SAY ANYTHING OR GIVE ANY REACTION.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING OR GIVE ANY REACTION.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING OR GIVE ANY REACTION.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING OR GIVE ANY REACTION.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING OR GIVE ANY REACTION.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING OR GIVE ANY REACTION.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING OR GIVE ANY REACTION.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING OR GIVE ANY REACTION.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING OR GIVE ANY REACTION.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING OR GIVE ANY REACTION.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING OR GIVE ANY REACTION.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING OR GIVE ANY REACTION.

Maybe you'll get the message this time? If you don't take this advice it's the last time I ever post in one of your threads.

 

[pikachu_69]

Did you read any of the posts in the other thread? I already fvcking told you what to do.

DON'T CONFRONT HER OR THIS OTHER GUY.

DON'T SAY ANYTHING.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING.
DON'T SAY ANYTHING.

Maybe you'll get the message this time? If you don't take this advice it's the last time I ever post in one of your threads.

No i mean yesterday when I was about to cross the road to go to the bar what should i have said?

I couldn't avoid the confrontation or passing by them. She'd want me to not make a scene. She'd be embarassed and uncomfortable. What should I have said?

Instead of hiding behind a car and texting later..

 

[Perfect10]

Troll. Choooo go away... Go! Don't make me come and get you!

 

[Iceberg]

Troll. Choooo go away... Go! Don't make me come and get you!

Seriously. He's a troll. I'm gonna start treating him the way he should be treating this girlfriend.

 

[Ease]

Seriously. He's a troll. I'm gonna start treating him the way he should be treating this girlfriend.

haha good idea.

 

[Lord Sidious]

After what happened last night, would it have been better to confront her for her lying to embarass her in front of her new guy?

I feel agrieved that I didn't say anything in person and just did it by text after.

What would I have said when I see them together kissing each other or holding hands?

I assume wish him all the best and good luck cos he'll need it. I feel maximum embarassment for her was needed. Now in the aftermath he has no clue and I look stupid with me dealing with it in a mature manner last night.

I feel like such a pvssy for hiding behind a car when I saw them walking hand in hand leaving the bar. grrr. If I encounter this situation again in future with a different girl what is the best thing to say to them?

I was thinking like 'oh so this is really good friends huh? so you're the spanish gf? ' then shake the guys hand and wish him luck. She doesn't feel stupid or embarassed cos i didn't cause a confrontation out in the open where she's caught.

Man, these type of situations require a firm posture. Show you´re superior to her and that you just won´t bother to see who she chooses to be with. ACT LIKE A MAN!

No woman is more important that you, dude! Cut the sms and that sort of BS. Respect women, but do not allow no woman to disrespect you!!!

I agree with katatonia! Don´t make any reaction. Just ignore and keep walking! Screw them (her specially).

 

[tafakna]

Yes, you should keep pursuing this girl. All is not lost, she's actually just using the spanish dude to wait for your reaction. As you didn't react at all, she thinks you don't care for her and that you're not manly enough. That's the whole problem.

Buy some loud speakers and a mic and start yelling on your campus that she has a spanish bf. Write at least 3 letters a day repeating that you want her. She will feel like you're indeed crazy for her, and start desiring you. Soon she will ask you to run to Vegas to get married over the weekend.

You will have 5 beautiful sons, all maniacs just like you, and in a few years we'll have 40 different usernames on Sosuave posting the very same stupid issue...

And don't forget your glasses or your contacts when you seal the deal, so you don't stick your **** in the pillow by mistake which will make her go back to the spanish lover...

 

[r0cky]

No i mean yesterday when I was about to cross the road to go to the bar what should i have said?

I couldn't avoid the confrontation or passing by them. She'd want me to not make a scene. She'd be embarassed and uncomfortable. What should I have said?

Instead of hiding behind a car and texting later..

Hey idiot, what part of dont confront her and dont say anything did you not understand??
No wonder your threads are such big hits in this forum because your incapacity to use our advice is like nothing we've ever come across. Its like you only listen what you want to listen. When you saw them kissing you should've walked straight by them like you didnt give care, because you shouldnt care. If she saw you as she was in the middle of her make out session and you acted like you didnt care, that would show her you dont give a damn about her and her interest in you wouldve comeback at least a tiny bit.

but its too late now, you are pretty much a done with her so what the hell does it matter what you could've done, you do what you have the balls to do, nobody can tell you what to do. But if you see her next time, even if shes deepthroating some guy in the middle of cafeteria, you walk by like its another wonderful day for you and totally ignore her presence.

Stop crying over this slut please.

 

[Buddha_Mind]

Look man, we've all been down this road. I saw an ex-gf taking another man by the arm 1 day after she broke up with me. It's ****ed yes. It's not easy, no. But this is part of the reality of dating and breaking up. People move on. **** those two people and live your life.

Who cares about them?

What are you doing right now for yourself? They are not going to help you in life. This woman is a waste of mental energy -- keep pushing your thoughts away from her!