"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My Last Testament Upon Leaving Sosuave.

Marlimus

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"Be without fear in the face of your enemies.
"Be brave and upright, that God may love thee,
"Speak the truth, always, even if it means your death,
"Safeguard the helpless and do no wrong.
"That is your oath.
"Arise a Knight, and the Baron of Ibelin."
-Exerpt from Kingdom of Heaven

After a long hiatus away from Sosuave, I return to realize that I have outgrown it. Verily, my entire experience within the seduction community may have been more a less a phase. I do not denounce it, it was an integral part of my social development. However, to spend countless hours out trying and even successfully seducing women, and posting reports about it afterwards now seems juvenile, the equivalent of constantly measuring the size of one's penis.

There are causes out there gentlemen: social inequity, the damaging effects of feminism, male underachievement in the public school system- that are infinitely more pertinent. Also, I would now rather spend my time reading financial literature to improve my future capacity to build wealth, study international business and the stock market, pump iron, read, dance or write scholarly articles than to give advice to sexually frustrated young men. In any case there is now an entire industry dedicated to that end.

The ludicrous economic success of the seduction community is predicated on the fact that the modern male is conditioned to value his masculinity solely in terms of his romantic competence with the opposite sex. By allowing women to define masculinity for us, we end up with effete sensitive new age men, metrosexuals, and all manner of glittering and utterly useless creatures. However, patriarchal codes of honor in ancient societies by his power to build, create and protect: a man was defined by what he did, what he accomplished or built, not who he ****ed. By channelling our testosterone-driven desire for greatness into the mindless pursuit of *****, we shortchange ourselves, stunt our development, and become ever more dependent upon female validation.

If you are not yet competent with the opposite sex, do not follow my example. Do not leave the community. But if you have attained a certain level of success, then for God's sake, man, start building an empire you can hand over to your heirs, or a legacy that others can admire and look up to. **** mission statements and written goals.

First, develop a code of honor.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Exactly :)

This is partly what I was trying to touch on in a recent post of mine, except my views were nowhere near as eloquently expressed as yours.

Why measure yourself on a scale of how many girls you can you **** or how girls see you when you have the potential to achieve so much more if you focus on more important things?
 

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Very well spoken Marlimus. The best of luck to you in the future.:up:
 

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Well done :clap:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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