“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Asian Girls. If there ever was a guy so smitten with Asians, it would be me. I created the whole Asian Infatuation thing. :D
But I have created a weakness. When I'm around them I can't take them off their pedestal that I have created. Like I think so highly of them and I know this is all wrong. But then again I don't want to trick myself into thinking they are lower, because I like the fact that I like them so much, lol.
Where I live, Asians are pretty rare, even though I'm in ASU territory and it has its good share.

I frequent the clubs in Scottsdale, AZ very often so I'm very used to BEAUTIFUL women!!! I'm not intimidated by really hot girls, most of them could be reasoned to be hotter then most the Asian girls I let weaken me. But yet I can lock up around an Asian chick who is realistically an hb7 or 8.
Its like I have created a barrier from the one thing I want the most.

several months ago for example, I was at a club and there was a whole table of about 6 single hot Asian girls... No males were approaching at all. Granted most Asian girls can look very b!tchy, arrogant.
But I kept telling myself if their was ever a set you should approach it would obviously be these Asians... "If you like them so much why are you still sitting here WATCHING them?" I kept asking myself.. But I couldn't do it. And I'm not inexperienced in approaching groups. And that wasn't the first time I have froze up with an Asian.
I mean I have approached some, And I even had an Asian gf in the past. But for some reason it doesn't nullify the issue. Like I haven't gotten enough experience with them... If only I lived in Japan ;)

I need to De-value them some how. Otherwise I probably won't have good chances with them if I can't stop from gawking so damn much.
Anyone had a kryptonite problem like this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ooo, Scottsdale! I'm there occassionally for business - what a mecca for hotties. What clubs do you go to?

As for the asian thing - what is it about them that makes you hold them in such high regard? Is it purely based on their looks, or culture?

I was in a seven-year relationship with an asian girl. Let me tell you, they're the same as anybody else.
 
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PhatE1vis said:
Ooo, Scottsdale! I'm there occassionally for business - what a mecca for hotties. What clubs do you go to?

As for the asian thing - what is it about them that makes you hold them in such high regard? Is it purely based on their looks, or culture?

I was in a seven-year relationship with an asian girl. Let me tell you, they're the same as anybody else.
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clubs.. I practically live at martini ranch. It's just a shred cheaper alittle more relaxed yet brings all the environment together.. And it is not short changed at all with the women!
Devils Martini also, although I don't have good chances there because I didn't drive up in a Ferrari like most people... Extremely beautiful girls there though. Its a good place to see celebrity's too.
Other then that any club around old town is good.. Axus Radius, myst, etc.
I'm starting to hit Mill ave though again as school is back in session. But I dont like mill as much. Mill is where the girls play, scottsdale is where Women play!
Yet ASU has 9,300 freshman females this year... so yeah, Mill Ave for me tonight.

and the Asians... I would say culture attracted me at first. Japanese primarily. But then looks. Yeah its a problem with their looks. Cause I freeze up without even talking to them yet... I know they are the same as every other girl. Especially here in America. I just gotta get in their and do it.

what nationality was your gf?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Randallpink83 said:
Asian Girls. If there ever was a guy so smitten with Asians, it would be me. I created the whole Asian Infatuation thing. :D
But I have created a weakness. When I'm around them I can't take them off their pedestal that I have created. Like I think so highly of them and I know this is all wrong. But then again I don't want to trick myself into thinking they are lower, because I like the fact that I like them so much, lol.
Where I live, Asians are pretty rare, even though I'm in ASU territory and it has its good share.

I frequent the clubs in Scottsdale, AZ very often so I'm very used to BEAUTIFUL women!!! I'm not intimidated by really hot girls, most of them could be reasoned to be hotter then most the Asian girls I let weaken me. But yet I can lock up around an Asian chick who is realistically an hb7 or 8.
Its like I have created a barrier from the one thing I want the most.

several months ago for example, I was at a club and there was a whole table of about 6 single hot Asian girls... No males were approaching at all. Granted most Asian girls can look very b!tchy, arrogant.
But I kept telling myself if their was ever a set you should approach it would obviously be these Asians... "If you like them so much why are you still sitting here WATCHING them?" I kept asking myself.. But I couldn't do it. And I'm not inexperienced in approaching groups. And that wasn't the first time I have froze up with an Asian.
I mean I have approached some, And I even had an Asian gf in the past. But for some reason it doesn't nullify the issue. Like I haven't gotten enough experience with them... If only I lived in Japan ;)

I need to De-value them some how. Otherwise I probably won't have good chances with them if I can't stop from gawking so damn much.
Anyone had a kryptonite problem like this?
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You put Asian females on pedestals but they don't give you the time of day. :rolleyes: What you're looking for is a neat little trophy. Typical asiaphile.
 
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ha,
i automatically put asian chicks lower than others.... prob cause i'm asian myself
 
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Randallpink83 said:
Asian Girls. If there ever was a guy so smitten with Asians, it would be me. I created the whole Asian Infatuation thing. :D ...

...Anyone had a kryptonite problem like this?
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Man... The eyes can get me. Pretty eyes. Especially ones of a certain color. I call it God's cosmic joke. Almost every girl I've fallen for has had this eye color, even before I noticed the eyes. And yep, I'm a sucker for cute girly traits. If I see a cute mannerism a chick has, (certain ones especially) then I can fall for it pretty hard sometimes.

And while I'm great at noticing those little things from a lot of different women, (and it's totally going to help when I'm in a good relationship), I end up having way too many crushes because of it. I see a little move, a certain smile, and you can practically see cherubs and hearts floating around my head. It can be good, as I can do genuine sounding compliments from time to time, but it can be a bit of a curse as well.

Oh, and Kryptonite is also my Kryptonite.
 
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UPDATE::: I am now currently tearing those little slant eyes off their pedestal, And I have a new goal, I'm approaching every Asian girl I see now. Its mandatory... And I've been following through, but wow are some of them stuck up.. they think they are gods gift to the world around here or something, but I think its cute and makes me push harder. :)

....Very soon I will dominate!!! I refuse to have kryptonite in my life... pshhhh thats retarded...:rockon:
 
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