So I've been on this thread for two yrs. Prior to THe Game (that thing flooded this website) and I have had litte to no progress. Therefore I joined a lair. There I met many guys, but I was suprised by how many run mystery (Not to diss them, I love them like brothers). But for me thats not my path.
I do not believe in the term PUA. I simply wanna become a Man. I am trying to "run natural game". IE be my best self. I have also found that going out for the sole purpose of "running sets" and as many as you can is odd. I mean my first cold approach (since I joined the lair)I was really into the girl and vibed and got her number (didn't work out because my phone game sucked). But all the other sets didn't really work out because I wasn't interested. QUality over quantity? I find it better just to be sociable with ppl you would normally interact with. Although I do get AA. But I mean AA means ur into the girl. I just have to get better at doing courage.
Anyways so tonight I was at dance practice and there was this cool latina dance party happening next door so we go in and check it out. Lots of cute girls. Mad amounts of AA. I dance with one girl for like 3 seconds because I feel uncomfortable. I also danced in a lot of circles showing my poppin skills. Despite that ability to dance and freestyle when it comes to dancing with girls I'm nervous. I have never grinded with a girl. So towards the end of the night I summon courage and try to get a girl to teach me a latin dance, but she doesn't know how and had closed body language. She is not willing to talk. One of the latina club members shows me how to dance a latin dance and we dance for 5 minutes
. On the way home I open this cute girl on the street because we were the only ones on it. It does not go well. Haha she calls me a freshman right away. In anycase I have a long journey ahead of me, but I am beginning to take more oppurtunities and becoming a Man.
I do not believe in the term PUA. I simply wanna become a Man. I am trying to "run natural game". IE be my best self. I have also found that going out for the sole purpose of "running sets" and as many as you can is odd. I mean my first cold approach (since I joined the lair)I was really into the girl and vibed and got her number (didn't work out because my phone game sucked). But all the other sets didn't really work out because I wasn't interested. QUality over quantity? I find it better just to be sociable with ppl you would normally interact with. Although I do get AA. But I mean AA means ur into the girl. I just have to get better at doing courage.
Anyways so tonight I was at dance practice and there was this cool latina dance party happening next door so we go in and check it out. Lots of cute girls. Mad amounts of AA. I dance with one girl for like 3 seconds because I feel uncomfortable. I also danced in a lot of circles showing my poppin skills. Despite that ability to dance and freestyle when it comes to dancing with girls I'm nervous. I have never grinded with a girl. So towards the end of the night I summon courage and try to get a girl to teach me a latin dance, but she doesn't know how and had closed body language. She is not willing to talk. One of the latina club members shows me how to dance a latin dance and we dance for 5 minutes
. On the way home I open this cute girl on the street because we were the only ones on it. It does not go well. Haha she calls me a freshman right away. In anycase I have a long journey ahead of me, but I am beginning to take more oppurtunities and becoming a Man.