My ironic problem...

[Scorched]

I won't go all the way with a girl if she has been with more than like 5 guys...

But EVERY GIRL I've been with over the past year that has only had sex with/dated a few guys likes attention too much.
This includes my current girl friend and most of my ex girlfriends...

Sucks for me in a way. ha...
I guess I need to lower my standards when it comes to how many guys she's been with...

 

[Riveting]

Yeah. It bothers me too. But when I see a hot girl like that, I just think of that song by the Spice Girls.

If you want my future forget my past,
If you wanna get with me better make it fast,
Now don't go wasting my precious time,
Get your act together we could be just fine

I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

 

[chronic99uk]

I won't go all the way with a girl if she has been with more than like 5 guys...

But EVERY GIRL I've been with over the past year that has only had sex with/dated a few guys likes attention too much.
This includes my current girl friend and most of my ex girlfriends...

Sucks for me in a way. ha...
I guess I need to lower my standards when it comes to how many guys she's been with...

You clearly have a massive insecurity here.
Why?

What ages are we talking, cause at my age (24) most girls have been with more than 5 guys. Unless they have been in LTR's

 

[JPFromTally]

Why is it insecure to not want the girls you're sleeping giving up their poony to every Tom, Richard and Harry to come along?

 

[KarmaSutra]

You clearly have a massive insecurity here.
Why?

What ages are we talking, cause at my age (24) most girls have been with more than 5 guys. Unless they have been in LTR's

I don't believe he's insecure at all. With all of the diseases and sh!t easily catchable it behooves everyone to be careful.

Scorched, do not lower your standards or settle for anything less than the best. Once you start down that road you can't turn around.

 

[Snow Plowman]

It's funny how people devalue girls because of there sexual past. I'm sorry to say but most girls have had more sex than guys, why? because they have more options. 5 guys is by no means a lot for the average girl. (Unless there a virgin or lost her virginity in a LTR. Right now I know girls who are 18 that have had 4 guys already. The thing is girls don't really talk about how many guys they've been with because that will lower there value because of people like you.

This all comes from social conditioning and your buying into it. We are the ones that cause women to hide interest because we judge them based on sex. Say you were in a relationship for a year or 2 and it was real good. What would happen if you found out that before you actually started dating her, a friend of yours had round up a few of his friends and gangbanged her. What would you do? would you bring off the relationship? Most likely yes because of the standard that you have.

It goes back to secret society mindset, where there is a specific group of men who are non judgemental about sex, and there the ones who get special treats. (From my experience the girls who I've perceive me that way has given me special treatment.) These are the guys who lay girls very quickly, get 3somes, lays in public places, and anything else that a girl wouldn't normally do for a guy they just met.

I personally advise you not to hold the standard that you are holding because your limiting yourself very much and you won't really find much women who actually had sex less than 5 times. (Unless they lie) But then again most girls lay about the amount of people they had sex with because of social conditioning.

I can go on and on but overall this will hold you back big time.

 

[pagemaster]

I won't go all the way with a girl if she has been with more than like 5 guys...

But EVERY GIRL I've been with over the past year that has only had sex with/dated a few guys likes attention too much.
This includes my current girl friend and most of my ex girlfriends...

Sucks for me in a way. ha...
I guess I need to lower my standards when it comes to how many guys she's been with...

Hey Scorched. I agree with you 100%....I am the same way. If I meet a chick who is younger (28) than me and has been with more than 5 guys, I really do started to wonder.

IMO, sex with women because the best when you can ride of the condoms and you know each other VERY well in bed. Sex without a condom won't happen early in my bed.

As for a girl who is 28. 7-8 or guys would be the max for me because I have messed around with about 8 girls with 3 of them taking up most of the time.

 

[WaterTiger]

You guys crack me up! You want a girl who doesn't sleep around...but WILL sleep with you.

 

[JPFromTally]

Ok.. so here's a question. You meet a girl and you fall in love. You're thinking it's getting serious and then you find out she was a porn star a few years back. Or you find out she was a prostitute.

Do you still look at her the same way?

 

[realsmoothie]

You guys crack me up! You want a girl who doesn't sleep around...but WILL sleep with you.

LOL... the madonna/***** complex. The double standard men have held for women since at least the beginnings of Christianity.

Give me a break. If a guy has a lot of sex he's a stud, if a girl has a lot of sex, she's a slut?

A recent study found that people who were trying to abstain from sex were just as likely to catch an STD as those who were openly sexually active. Why? I presume that those who were active (and accepted it) were MORE CAREFUL about STD's and knew how to use protection.