My intuition tells me it doesn't get better for men with age.....

[drakeisfire]

I commonly heard it being said that men hit their prime at some point in their 30s or maybe late 20s, who knows, but my intuition is slowly starting to tell me that I was wrong and maybe even misled. When I say get better, I mean the ability to smash lots of different women and also live an amazing social life on top of it, but it does not make sense to me how that would be possible.

College and university.

Most men begin college at the age of 18 or so and finish in their early to mid 20s. These are supposed to be the years it is easiest to make friends and meet women due to the volume of women you have available who are looking to experiment. I don't agree with this but a lot of men on here seem to hint at it being easy at this stage of life, so it only gets harder after here?

Adulthood in general.

Most women who were in their prime are married or pushing hard for it.

Most of the cool people from their school days have settled down with families.

Most of the hookup culture and fun which was commonly associated with college is not associated with adulthood.

Everyone is "serious" meaning they now have "responsibilities", it is all about kids, family, career and those things while things like making new friends and social circles are completely off limits or not as looked highly upon.

Even the player lifestyle in general.

I find that even most men are frowning upon it or talking about the waste of time it is, they wouldn't say that to a college kid as he is told to get his **** wet as much as possible. Men talk about "life purpose" and other stuff but it is never brought up how easy or tough it is to run through woman by woman in your 30s as well as live the awesome social life.

It isn't really a thing, it is frowned upon not just by society but by masculinity, like you should have got it "out of your system" when you were in college.

No one looks highly upon a guy in his 30s that sleeps around but a guy in college doing it is just enjoying his youth.

Its time to "settle down".

So I have to say, I feel misled. I don't think it gets better or easier for men with age at all.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I commonly heard it being said that men hit their prime at some point in their 30s or maybe late 20s, who knows, but my intuition is slowly starting to tell me that I was wrong and maybe even misled. When I say get better, I mean the ability to smash lots of different women and also live an amazing social life on top of it, but it does not make sense to me how that would be possible.

College and university.

Most men begin college at the age of 18 or so and finish in their early to mid 20s. These are supposed to be the years it is easiest to make friends and meet women due to the volume of women you have available who are looking to experiment. I don't agree with this but a lot of men on here seem to hint at it being easy at this stage of life, so it only gets harder after here?

Adulthood in general.

Most women who were in their prime are married or pushing hard for it.

Most of the cool people from their school days have settled down with families.

Most of the hookup culture and fun which was commonly associated with college is not associated with adulthood.

Everyone is "serious" meaning they now have "responsibilities", it is all about kids, family, career and those things while things like making new friends and social circles are completely off limits or not as looked highly upon.

Even the player lifestyle in general.

I find that even most men are frowning upon it or talking about the waste of time it is, they wouldn't say that to a college kid as he is told to get his **** wet as much as possible. Men talk about "life purpose" and other stuff but it is never brought up how easy or tough it is to run through woman by woman in your 30s as well as live the awesome social life.

It isn't really a thing, it is frowned upon not just by society but by masculinity, like you should have got it "out of your system" when you were in college.

No one looks highly upon a guy in his 30s that sleeps around but a guy in college doing it is just enjoying his youth.

Its time to "settle down".

So I have to say, I feel misled. I don't think it gets better or easier for men with age at all.

Listen to those having success

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Case by case basis. Unless you were born with sexual confidence then it can only get better with age. Some early bloomers obviously will peak in college.

How does one gain sexual confidence?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The way I did it was advance in my career, get in shape, and grow into my looks to where I caught the attention of women finally.

We gain it by doing it. I started out as a young freak. Read "the sensual man" at 13. Had been messing with girls at 9. Later in life female politics blocked me and sent me here.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yup I was the opposite. Im in my prime now. I mean I agree with ppl that this market svcks but he I do well as far as lays.

We have to keep it moving. If they arent trying to work with us we have to drop them.

 

[sangheilios]

I'm 28, but from my observations it definitely goes downhill for the vast majority of men once they go past their early 20s. The reason for this is simple, most adults, men included, are starting to gain weight and are nowhere near as attractive as they were in high school or college. If a man takes care of himself and stays fit he is going to be way ahead of most other men in general, let alone once he starts getting into his late twenties on.

I'm not a player or sleep with tons of women, but I was an insane late bloomer and just starting to realize how easy it is. I'm naturally an attractive guy, but growing up I had no social confidence what so ever. I've also stayed very fit and healthy, which obviously helps. My social circle has expanded substantially over the past year and with this added confidence I've been able to meet women far more easily compared to before. Granted, I've had several sticking points where I seemed to not have things work out for me, but I've found meeting more people and inviting them to do things with me is the right way to go about all of this.

 

[EyeBRollin]

My ascension is continuing. I **** about 4 times as many chicks per year than I did at 25. If I'm not in a relationship, I usually bed 20-30 new women per year.

 

[spinich]

As you age you develope different priorities and such look to woman to match those changing priorities. It is no longer totally about sex or numbers. Perhaps you want a compatable travel companion or someone who compliments hobbies and interests. As you age, you gain wisdom hopefully and realize those HB 10 girls are a pain in the as* to keep entertained and faithful because of all the thirsty orbiters. It gets old quickly. I guess what I assert is that age doesn't create opportunity but rather defines the importance of those opportunities relative to your complete life. In the end the really is more to life than someone's vagina.

 

[The Duke]

Its entirely up to the individual. I am in my early 40's.....great shape, dress good, look a few years younger than my actual age, good social circle, decent looks, smell good, very experienced with women, confident, understand them better than most men, great income, have nice things, fun to be with, outgoing, solid career, have some good hobbies, talk good, and know how to seduce. Oh yeah, I'm bald. I wasn't always all of those things I just listed, but I am now and I don't have a shortage of women to go out with. In fact Its never been so easy to obtain women.

And just the other night I took home a super cute 21yo with a very nice body.......half my age. I could date more girls (+/-5yrs from my age) than I have time for if all I wanted was fun times and good looks. Most of the women I date are HB8's.

Until you are willing to put the work in, face multiple rejections without getting butthurt, date a few crazies, and really learn what women are all about and still want to pursue them then you might as well throw the towel in. You have to keep pushing yourself. It takes a man with a never die, loves the thrill of hunting, seeks accomplishments kind of attitude.

It doesn't matter what it is in life. The ones that work the hardest have the best shot of getting what they want. The ones who don't work very hard are forced to settle. Regardless of age.

ps. in my mid 30's I had a new girl every 1-2months. I have a buddy in his early 40's that goes thru 2-3 new women(HB6-8) a month.

 

[zekko]

Your inuition may tell you otherwise, but my experience tells me that it does get better for men with age.
As long as you stay in shape and worked on improving yourself in your 20s, your SMV should be increased by the time you hit your 30s.

The main issue is logistics. For some guys, their lifestyle doesn't bring them into contact with many single women. Other guys are more fortunate. If you can solve that puzzle, the world is your oyster. Make your own luck.

Don't fall under the false assumption that women are attracted to youth like men are, they are not.

Spot on. A little age on a man can make him look strong, solid, mature, and edgy. Girls are generally attracted to the opposite of what we are, within common sense.

 

[EyeBRollin]

How old are you now?

29

 

[lamath]

Again it depends on how you live your life.
But a man with ambition living a good healthy live will have his SMV Increase.
Also you get wiser, women wont intimidate you as much and learn to go for what you want.

At 26 you are still a bit young to see the difference, but seriously it changes.

 

[Roober]

If you take care of yourself, I would say men dont peak to till 45-50. In your 20s, your range is 18-30. Women over 30 have no interest in boys. In your 30s and 40s, your range is 18-as old as you want.

Much of this is due to what @Howiestern says. Look at men in their 20s; very very few of them have anything figured out.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I commonly heard it being said that men hit their prime at some point in their 30s or maybe late 20s, who knows, but my intuition is slowly starting to tell me that I was wrong and maybe even misled. When I say get better, I mean the ability to smash lots of different women and also live an amazing social life on top of it, but it does not make sense to me how that would be possible

It's much better. Granted, dryspells and luls occur due to any number a reasons.

Your biggest issue is getting dad nod, being a slob or blaming age on not manning up.

Game is easy. Staying on the grind is hard.

At 30, what man Dares to want to play with **** tests from a cute college girl who lives with mommy and daddy while seeking her degree in basket weaving and a minor in women's studies?

College and university.

Most men begin college at the age of 18 or so and finish in their early to mid 20s. These are supposed to be the years it is easiest to make friends and meet women due to the volume of women you have available who are looking to experiment. I don't agree with this but a lot of men on here seem to hint at it being easy at this stage of life, so it only gets harder after here?

Jordan Peterson brought up the 4:1 girl to boy ratio. Great right?

No. Why? 80:20 pareto distribution.

80% of women pursue top 20% of man meaning if Chad or Tyrone status, sure. You said it.


Otherwise, you are jiggling nonsense from a girl who has the attention span of a hamster on a wheel.

Adulthood in general.

Most women who were in their prime are married or pushing hard for it.

Most of the cool people from their school days have settled down with families.

Most of the hookup culture and fun which was commonly associated with college is not associated with adulthood

These are preconceived notions you have.

At 30, I see it. Some are ready. Most likely, 99% are following the beaten path usually by being dragged kicking and screaming from a wall woman or plummeted SMV.

Everyone is "serious" meaning they now have "responsibilities", it is all about kids, family, career and those things while things like making new friends and social circles are completely off limits or not as looked highly upon.

Rsd Tyler calls it "following the beaten path."

The same cucks will be single mom's and dudes be mgtow.

"know thyself." - Socrates

Even the player lifestyle in general.

I find that even most men are frowning upon it or talking about the waste of time it is, they wouldn't say that to a college kid as he is told to get his **** wet as much as possible. Men talk about "life purpose" and other stuff but it is never brought up how easy or tough it is to run through woman by woman in your 30s as well as live the awesome social life.

Awesome life and beaten path don't coincide.

You pick the path you walk.

It isn't really a thing, it is frowned upon not just by society but by masculinity, like you should have got it "out of your system" when you were in college.

No one looks highly upon a guy in his 30s that sleeps around but a guy in college doing it is just enjoying his youth.

Its time to "settle down

80% of divorce is initiated by women

So I have to say, I feel misled. I don't think it gets better or easier for men with age at all.

Irrelevant.


Grow a pair of nuts. Man the ****kkk up. Go get baeeeees or stfu and join the other cucks.

Either way, zero ****s given.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

You haven't even hit your peak yet, keep smashin!

It's hard for him to smash when he is urinating from the seated position.

Even his piss hitting the porcelain sounds feminine.

Wait wut?

 

[guru1000]

Mid 40s here.

Ages of 2018 women thus far: 21, 23, 23, 23, 24, 25, 25, 26, 27, 29, 29, 29, 30, 30, 30, 31, 31, 32, 34, 35, 35, 36, 38, 41, 42

All 7-9 range in rotating harems and steady STRs.

Men do better with age provided they keep improving across the board.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

There's a subtle beauty when you get older not a physical one. You're still trying to be your best version, but at the same time you're not trying to compete as much l, you grasp the concept of maturity and values as you get older. Self respect introspection

 

[bigdave17]

It's much better. Granted, dryspells and luls occur due to any number a reasons.

Your biggest issue is getting dad nod, being a slob or blaming age on not manning up.

Game is easy. Staying on the grind is hard.

At 30, what man Dares to want to play with **** tests from a cute college girl who lives with mommy and daddy while seeking her degree in basket weaving and a minor in women's studies?



Jordan Peterson brought up the 4:1 girl to boy ratio. Great right?

No. Why? 80:20 pareto distribution.

80% of women pursue top 20% of man meaning if Chad or Tyrone status, sure. You said it.


Otherwise, you are jiggling nonsense from a girl who has the attention span of a hamster on a wheel.




These are preconceived notions you have.

At 30, I see it. Some are ready. Most likely, 99% are following the beaten path usually by being dragged kicking and screaming from a wall woman or plummeted SMV.





Rsd Tyler calls it "following the beaten path."

The same cucks will be single mom's and dudes be mgtow.

"know thyself." - Socrates


Awesome life and beaten path don't coincide.

You pick the path you walk.



80% of divorce is initiated by women

Irrelevant.


Grow a pair of nuts. Man the ****kkk up. Go get baeeeees or stfu and join the other cucks.

Either way, zero ****s given.

LMAO @ thinking top 20% of men = chad


I'm easily top 5% of men, maybe top 3% of men and I'm like a 7.5/10 for online standards, which is nowhere near good enough to dominate by itself.


a chad = tall, very good looking (near male model), very lean white male. This isn't top 20% of men, this is like top 0.01% of men. I saw 1 or 2 guys tonight who fit that category...out of maybe 300

 

[drakeisfire]

Here is the issue @DEEZEDBRAH

Your social life is going to SUCK with age, the social opportunities are not there as they used to be.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Here is the issue @DEEZEDBRAH

Your social life is going to SUCK with age, the social opportunities are not there as they used to be.

The social life adjusts. It will be some business networking and different groups he hangs with. Sex will still happen.