"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My insecurity

Gammergq

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There are allot of stuff I need to work when it comes to my outer game but I think my confidence is my achile heels some day I feel like a good looking man and recieve compliments from girls and girls opening me other days I fell ugly and I get all types of people from eco warriors to young kids laughing at me or saying not plesant things about me this really effects my confidence and my game Over this week I have asked question regarding my outer game but I feel this is the thing which I feel limits me the most and other guys when it comes to women I need help so any wisdom nuggets or words of inspiration is apprieated I need something I am feeling really low at the moment.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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regular_guy

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DjDan said:
that's because you are too focused on what others think about you. stuck in your own head and your ego.
I second that opinion. Live by your own rules.
 
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