"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My insecurity

Gammergq

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There are allot of stuff I need to work when it comes to my outer game but I think my confidence is my achile heels some day I feel like a good looking man and recieve compliments from girls and girls opening me other days I fell ugly and I get all types of people from eco warriors to young kids laughing at me or saying not plesant things about me this really effects my confidence and my game Over this week I have asked question regarding my outer game but I feel this is the thing which I feel limits me the most and other guys when it comes to women I need help so any wisdom nuggets or words of inspiration is apprieated I need something I am feeling really low at the moment.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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regular_guy

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DjDan said:
that's because you are too focused on what others think about you. stuck in your own head and your ego.
I second that opinion. Live by your own rules.
 
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